Fantasy? Fact?  

simplyhere4you2 40M
4 posts
5/10/2005 7:34 pm

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Fantasy? Fact?


Fact or fantasy? I have joined this site in the search of getting laid. It would be nice however, I am not sure it will happen. Is the fantasy more alluring then the facts? This is Maine after all (for those that have not looked at my profile I live in Maine)and it is a small community. It is even smaller here, on the Internet, where their is an imbalance of men vs women. I like the fantasy for now and hope to prolong the enjoyment.

Poet_99 50M

5/10/2005 9:07 pm

There's an imbalance of men vs women on every internet personals site. In addition, you also need to realize that many of the women are either looking for couples or other women so that narrows the field down even further (if you want to avoid that, go to a more vanilla site). Finally there are age and geographical considerations which ultimately means for every 10 single guys, there's maybe 1 single girl. Nice guy approaches rarely work except to get you called 'a nice guy' - it doesn't get you laid. While you are trying to publicly talk to that girl, you can bet that several other guys are sending her multiple private messages. Heck, I see a few guys and that's ALL they do. I was always wondering who the xxxxx guy was that all the girls were replying to and then it just made sense that he NEVER sends a single public message. The final hurdle is finding a lady who shares similiar desires if you are looking for more than just vanilla sex. For example, if you wanted to experience light bondage and she doesn't do that sort of thing, well you either need to forget about that (hard to do) or find someone else.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/10/2005 11:49 pm

Awww... don't give up. Used to visit CT quite often and my ex-sisterinlaw is from Maine. Don't get up that way often myself but I am certain there are those who would love to. You might have to end up doing the traveling though since, like you said, it is a small community up there.

The New England states are, thankfully, for you much closer together than the Southern States. Just imagine if Maine were the size of Texas, how much more difficult it would be to travel across states.

Hang in there....Fantasies may turn into Fact for you soon enough!!!


simplyhere4you2 40M
4 posts
5/20/2005 1:15 pm

I have not given up I was just a little frustrated when I made the original post.


simplyhere4you2 40M
4 posts
5/20/2005 1:20 pm

I have not given up I was just a little frustrated when I made the original post. As Poet 99 has said, the field narrows the more specific you make the requirements. Perhaps I have narrowed my field too much.


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