Hi folks, & my couple fantasy  

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10/28/2005 1:12 am

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Hi folks, & my couple fantasy


Started AdultFriendFinder about 2 weeks ago and I can't believe the things I'm discovering about myself and others.

First: I want to make it with a couple! Why? I'm sure the psychology of it is complex.
-- There's the voyeurism of looking at a relationship from such a close angle.
-- There's the gratification of being the "spice" in someone else's sex life
-- There's the do-gooder impulse, the wish to be the "healer", the salve for an ailing relationship

(Of course my best buddy told me that, when he was young and stupid he got into a sticky situation where he and the wife fell in love and the couple got divorced and yadda yadda -- I suppose that's why the experienced swinging couples all say stuff like NO DRAMA!)

-- There is NOT for me, as a very straight male indeed, ANY thrill in the other man's body -- wish I were bi... twice as many folks to have fun with... but I ain't wired that way!

-- But I do envision a cameraderie, a hail-fellow-well-met, High 5 kind of attitude as we collectively push "wifie" to new heights of sexual abandon... that's the bottom line for me... a woman so hot she needs two cocks to please her...

-- But then there's the ones where the husband only watches... and yep, that turns me on too, making a cuckold out of him... fuckin' your wife, dude...

-- And interestingly, I find it somehow very sweet and compelling and intimate that, ultimately, the husband can protect her if the new man turns out to be a psycho or just weird.

-- I just love how couples emphasize mellowness, getting to know each other, respect for boundaries, letting things develop slowly. Sex in a relaxed atmosphere? How un-Christian!

So all I can say is, bring it on! Whomever I lose my couples-virginity to will make me one very grateful, horny, happy camper. And I hope to do the same for you

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