Deja vu...  

simon61166 50M
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4/26/2006 4:59 am

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2/11/2007 2:12 am

Deja vu...


Was having lunch with a close friend who is going through a really rough patch in his family life... basically just sat there with him and listen to him pour our his misery... and re-living some of my own miseries that happpened some years ago. Glad that I could sit there and provide that shoulder for him to cry on. (I had to live through mine all alone.) When you and your other half stop communicating, things get from bad to worse. One thing I discovered was that it is not always best to give in but give in at the right moment. Both parties must give and take... if only side gives in all the time... it becomes a downhill slide. The only thing I could do was to console him and tell him that he still has something to look forward too - his two lovely kids. He is one who keeps everything inside after his parents problems eventually erupted after he just got married. So, his policy has been not to argue with his wife, give in to her always... but it seems that it is going the same "wrong" way as my went years ago...

simon61166 50M

4/27/2006 10:47 pm

Firstly, if talking it out had been possible, things wouldn't have reached the state it is now. How can you talk things if the other party always insist that they are right??? You are lucky or rather your hubby is lucky to have you... but not everyone is as lucky at that...


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