Pushing the right buttons...  

silverlining04 43M/39F
14 posts
8/21/2005 11:09 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Pushing the right buttons...


My hubby and I read a profile yesterday that really intrigued me. I admired her openness and directness. She's a girl who knows exactly what she wants. The stuff she said was hot, and all the types of things I get horny about. But it made me think - is she like that all the time? (if so I am a inimidated!) Or is she just like me, with a very dirty mind and looking for someone who is able to puch the right buttons - at the right time?

What do you think? Do you like people who are
a) just like you, or
b) what you wish you could be?

I mean on this site for instance, do you seek partners who's profile is similar to yours? Or are you looking for a wilder person? Someone you wish you could be, but for whatever reason, haven't let it out yet?

neosore123 42M/F

8/22/2005 7:39 pm

My wife and I are almost complete opposites. I think it makes for a more interesting relationship. Meeting people that are different then you is definitely the way to go. Being around like-minded people can be comforting, but if you do that all the time I don’t think you can grow as a person.


cum2kissu2 52F
10792 posts
11/2/2006 6:45 am

Hi silverlining04,

I have been reading your Blogs.
All well written, open & honest..Thanks

This Blog caught my eye because it made me think about, what it is i like in a partner.

I find it easy to talk to people from all walks of life.

My friends tend to be intelligent ( yet not snobby about it ) & have quick wits.

I love to laugh & it tends too help ease me into situations where i may not feel totally relaxed.

Humor is a great ice breaker.

In a partner, i look for someone that is Confident,
a little Dominant & someone that can stimulate my mind sexually & otherwise.

Once an attraction is evident i like him to make the first move, take control & bring out my wild side.

Once this happens he allows me too come into my own.

If it is an ongoing thing my wild side isn't far from the surface at all at any given moment & then i'm happy to take control, but still have a weakness for the whole cave man thing. lol

So for me it's about two people being ease with each other.
Feeling comfortable about who i am with that person so i can let go completely & maybe even push boundaries <<< That depends on the depth or the relationship.

Thanks for the fodder & making me think some more

Keep Blogging away

ctku2 XXX


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