Update on 6AM...  

sillysmartstylis 39F
327 posts
7/29/2005 1:59 pm

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Update on 6AM...

The guy I met for coffee hasn't responded...guess he's not interested anymore. I can tell you its not my looks...and I know its not my personality...I have enough of that for the both of us! Guys, if u have any ideas about what makes a guy blow us off let me know...I have a few ideas but I want an unbiased opinion.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
7/29/2005 4:01 pm

How long has it been? Need to give a guy 5 days ... he could be sizing up his options, or simply sizing up the significance of the date, or simply that he's busy. Five days needs to go by before he has officially blown you off (only slightly tongue in cheek). When men say they will call .. that is the time frame in which they have in their minds to get back to you. Until you are an item, a couple, expect that lunch date to be treated like any other his mind. Unromantic ... absolutely ... piss poor way to treat a lady ... absolutely ... but it more true than not.



rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
8/19/2005 10:19 pm

Was he military, sillysmart? He may be out of town.
Sometimes it can be just that he didn't make the connection. Nothing personal about it. Though he should be upfront and let you know. Just don't lose faith. There are actually some pretty nice people in your area. Nice blog... have a wonderful weekend, Unlisted One

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
8/22/2005 6:53 pm

One day it will be the Right timing SSS. Not to worry!

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