Why ?  

shysexygal 42F
325 posts
4/9/2006 4:09 pm

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4/13/2006 6:18 pm

Why ?

Ok I need to vent a little:
1.What is up with making plans and sounding very into it then after 5-10 minutes messaging me to say you can't make it? What on Earth changed in that time?And you know what?The first time is painful,the second time is more painful and by the fifth or sixth time it becomes clear you have to be trying to make me feel like sh*t.Though the old saying applies: Hurt me once shame on you,hurt me twice shame on me.
Oh and when I call you on your caddish behaviour,for you to recant and say you will come over 'if I want you to'....is so ridiculous. So you don't want to come over but now you want to make it seem like it's me.
2.Ok so you have a girlfriend. I know this and keep the boundaries clear.Be with her ,do your thing,whatever. But when she pisses you off and you guys have a fight,contacting me after asking to come over does not go over well with me.First of all when you make up with her I become a regret...awkward.Also what is up with making me feel like second best? Trust me I am no one's sloppy seconds.

Rant over ....

Lucky80550 46M

4/9/2006 7:03 pm

well sound like you hate guys, which I'm sorry for that, some of use can be brain dead, as for the caddish behaviour maybe there not who they say they are and they are afraid to meet you thinking you will not like them or that they where lieing to you the whole time they where chatting with you, I don't really know what to say about it but you could find better guys then that or friends don't give up there's a good one out there for you.

shysexygal 42F

4/10/2006 3:59 am

Thanks lucky...and I don't hate guys.That's why I keep on trying.

rm_phil4fun2 58M
9 posts
4/10/2006 2:23 pm

You are right you should not be anyones sloppy seconds.You seem to be a good person who has got raw deal in a relationship and that has happened to most of us in the past,but we all pick up and carry on and the right person will come along.

Lucky80550 46M

4/10/2006 10:09 pm

thats good you should never give up just keep smiling.

rm_tony27770 46M
18 posts
4/12/2006 6:19 am

Hey i am new to this but here's my contribution. that's the nature of the game. most of the guys on this site are trying to have some excitement on the side but are afraid that it would look suspicious (trinidad is a very small place after all) and sometimes they feel uncomfortable or are caught by their other half and have to make it sound like they are not interested. But you seem nice and I am glad that you are still trying for a guy in spite of the disappointment

shysexygal 42F

4/12/2006 10:45 am

Thanks for the contributions guys...

sall19 50M/50F
7 posts
4/13/2006 3:50 am


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