ironic how i have lots of friend here yet  

shynocturnalgrl 43F
12 posts
2/12/2005 6:07 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

ironic how i have lots of friend here yet

many ppl are interested in me yet i spend this weekend alone. yay me! {insert cynicism} i think im going to elysium so i can be alone among the crowd.
maybe this is why i should not get emotional. disappointment is not what i wanted. i wanted fun and fun i did have till i realiazed my lack of importance. maybe i needed this weekend to myself to think?

FlirtyCuteGuy 45M

2/12/2005 8:09 pm

Care to be alone together, Gorgeous?

michelmylove 61M
4 posts
2/13/2005 1:56 am

Spending weekends alone can be a very rewarding thing once and while: For sure, spending good time with the right people is better, but think of the alternative you "missed". Better having the time to think creative when you are alone rather than spending your precious time with the wrong persons. Just let it happen the way it comes.

shynocturnalgrl 43F

2/16/2005 8:21 pm

thanks for the words... its nice to get a pick me up every now and again

SamZdat 59M

8/1/2005 9:15 pm

My best advice: have enough going on in your life so that a relationship is a benefit, not an absolute necessity.

rm_Lathandrael 34M
1 post
8/21/2005 10:00 pm

You are not unimportant. And I know what it feels like to be alone where all I do is think. A cure for that that works for me is going out, walking up to people and introducing myself. And I get to know them, and sometimes I find someone who by my point of view is good friendship material. But I never would have done that if I did not go outside and live. I spent a long time wasting away in my apartment THINKING, and never putting any of my thoughts into action. I was lonely, but I didn't DO anything about it. It was what I now consider to be my worst fear. Apathy. So go out and talk to people and LIVE, for I do NOT want ANYONE to go through that kind of self-imposed torment as I did. And you are important because you are the only one like you And from what I see of you and have read of these postings, you have the soul and brains to match your outward beauty, if not surpass it. In conclusion, people have to be blind, deaf and in a coma not to see you ARE worthwhile. And if they can't or wont see it:too bad for them Sincerely, Lathandrael.

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