The Impossible Dream  

shylyeager2 59F
14 posts
7/23/2006 12:26 pm

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The Impossible Dream

Well the date went well. We meet for drinks. Talked and ended on a kiss. He was exactly what I thought he would be. No Adonis but a nice guy.

It just made me ponder once again.. Am I dreaming the impossible dream when I keep hoping for the suprise of a really attractive guy being interested in me.

I mean about 5'7" to 5'10" about 150 - 170 pounds. Dark wavy hair, either green or blue eyes and well built - not body builder but well built.

I am not by any stretch of the imagination a supermodel (unless it's in an alternate universe)but I have been called pretty. I have curves in all the right places and my breasts have been complimented many times. I am considered by those who know me to be a warm, giving and funny woman.

Looks aren't everything.. we all know that (I hope) but some physical attraction would be nice. Some cruel people (here on this site) have suggested that I get off the site and stop looking until I've lost 70 or 80 pounds. I have spent the last 4 (very long and very rabbit food filled) years trying to do just that. I have lost 25 pounts which everyone should cheer . But that has not made a difference to my dating life (or lack thereof).

Don't get me wrong. The guys I have dated have been usually very nice guys who mostly have treated me very well. But even they are chasing the dream (in their case the supermodel dream).

So we all dream.. my question is - Is it the impossible dream?

tastycouple55 69M/69F

7/23/2006 1:06 pm

Dreams are only impossible if you give up on them. Congradulations on your weight lost. Ignore those who are rude. Feel good about yourself. It just take time for the right one in that dream to come along.

shylyeager2 replies on 7/23/2006 7:44 pm:
Thanks for the support!

keithcancook 60M
17793 posts
7/23/2006 1:22 pm

I am not nearly as shallow as once I was. Give me an honest woman with warts on her nose and I could be happy...

Blog On!

rm_Thumper4837 62M
6 posts
7/23/2006 10:40 pm

What I see is a woman with enormous potential since her likes about ass play are similar to mine and she appears to have a very shapely and pretty ass. I would suggest that those who are cruel in their comments to you are shallow individuals that you wouldn't want to meet anyway. Forget them and count your lucky stars that you don't have to waste your time on them...! Smile! I like what I see!

rm_BOS59 57M
6 posts
8/4/2006 10:02 pm

Shyly, I feel the same only from the male point of view! I met someone who only wants to f**k me and i have a problem with that. I don't know who else she is pleasing??? I am looking for "the one" i know she's there somewhere.
I actually have almost every mans dream, and i think i will end it...?

rm_da6969 64M
1 post
8/5/2006 11:23 am

Well, I'm the guy who had sex with her in my car! I think she is an
incredible lover, and I look forward to our weekend in the hotel. I
think she is very pretty, love all the nice curves, and like her just
the way she is, I wouldn't change a thing!! She has fulfilled my dream of having a friend/lover, I just hope she feels the same!

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