Goodbye Mom...  

shyknight2005 42M
121 posts
2/7/2006 10:29 pm

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Goodbye Mom...


Linn B.
10/24/41-2/6/06

R.I.P. Mom...I love you and will see you again.

Thank you all for your support this past crazy, hellish month. I really appreciate it. For those of you that are smokers, I won't lecture you to quit. My mother was a lifelong smoker and died of lung cancer. Fairly straightforward. I will urge you to go see your doctors, get checked out. We had no idea mom was sick, until she went in for something completely different and her lung cancer was found by accident. One month later she is dead. Please, for the sake of those people who love and care about you, get checked out.

And to share one of the last things mom told me before she passed..."Have fun."

hardtrucker59 57M/50F

2/7/2006 11:23 pm

Sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers will be with you. my husband lost his mother about three years now and it was a long transitional time period. Remember u will see her again and do what she asked have fun and live your life to the fullest. U are not promissed tomarrow so go out with a bang. hang in there {=}


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
2/8/2006 4:45 am

*HUGGGGGGGGGGGG*


Fox4aKnight1 43F

2/8/2006 12:35 pm

*hugs*

We are here for you sweetie ........if you need us give us a yell. hugger luv and be sweet....


curious082385 31F
4925 posts
2/9/2006 12:12 am

*whispers a prayer*
Hugs and gentle thoughts to you.

"Those that we love are never gone.
Close your eyes, whisper their names
and they are beside you always."
~Unknown


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
2/9/2006 4:12 am

Big hug sweetie.

I know no words can heal you right now but know we are thinking of you.

Purry {=}

Purry


rm_CuummDrop 49F
2591 posts
2/9/2006 4:33 am

i have never had the oppurtunity to chat with you,, but i feel your pain, and i know it. i as well, lost my Mother, thou' not to lung cancer, she had emphazima, and with that, she was all the time at the hospital, in and out, and finally, when we all thought she was well, going to make another winter... she was hospitalized once again. On March 8, 2003, my Mommy went on from this life. So, dear Sir, they say it gets easier, well, it does, but with no doubt i think of her daily.

blows kisses and super tight hugs, its gonna be alright...

cd/wendy

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
2/9/2006 4:41 am

my deepest sympathy to you and yours,remember her smile and her happy sayings,hugs papy


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
2/9/2006 4:45 am

~ hugz ~

~nodz~ in agreement with curious082385


freetime648 52F

2/9/2006 5:38 am

Big big Hugs....and may you live out those final words.......HAVE FUN!!!!!! My prayers are with you and your family.....


xx FREETIME648 xx


saddletrampsk 54F

2/9/2006 6:20 am

great big hugs..may your pain be replaced with all the wonderful memories of your Mother..


norprin5 55M

2/9/2006 7:58 am

so sorry for your loss!

King Nor XVIII


shyknight2005 42M
163 posts
2/9/2006 10:50 am

Wow...feeling overwhelmed here. Thank you all for your responses, thoughts and prayers. I have never met most of you, yet you have sent your sympathies anyways and I really appreciate it. I always felt AdultFriendFinder was one big, really dysfunctional yet strangely close family, and this proves it. Thank you all so much. I can feel the thoughts coming in, and it makes it much easier to get through these hard times. Right now I am just holding things together to get through the memorial service on Saturday, then I will go housesitting and break down for a few days by myself. Then I will be as good as new. Well, as close to good as I ever was lol.
Thank you all again. Cant say it enough.
SK


brightblonde3 58F

2/9/2006 1:57 pm

shyknight, so sorry about your mom. Take good care of yourself during this tough time. My mom died in March 2003...although we had a tempestuous relationship, there isn't a day that she doesn't pop into my thoughts.

stay strong and well.

smooches,

bb3


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

2/9/2006 3:53 pm

Holds you close
Whispers in your ear
Im here if you need me

Im so sorry for your loss
silky


nedthebundler 56M/59F

2/9/2006 5:00 pm

Shyknight,
I can appreciate your loss. My Mom passed away last August, one week after my returning home from the first visit with her and Dad in nine years. I don't think a day goes by that I don't think about her, but I try to keep upbeat and know that she is in a better place.

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!


caressmewell 53F

2/9/2006 5:01 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss.
Know that we are here for you.
Warm hugs and gentle kisses.


wickedelements 49F

2/9/2006 7:12 pm

Sweetie you and your family are as always in my thoughts and prayers. Know that I am here for you at anytime should you need me, just a phone call and short drive away. Hugs

Sheri


CelticKarma 43F
1350 posts
2/9/2006 7:54 pm

I truly am sorry


MOfunNOWWOW 55F

2/9/2006 10:09 pm

DEAR MAMA
by Jacqueline L

AS YOU LAY
TIME STANDS STILL
TOO MANY THOUGHTS TO THINK
TOO MANY THINGS TO FEEL
HEAVEN AT YOUR SIDE
WITH YOUR HAND IN HIS
YOU NOT EVEN KNOWING
HOW VERY MUCH YOU ARE MISSED
STRUGGLING TO FIND COMFORT
THAT THIS IS NOT THE END
YOU ARE MORE THAN MY MOM
YOU ARE MY FRIEND
SO VERY HARD KNOWING
TOMORROW I WON’T SEE YOUR FACE
AND WORSE NOT HAVING YOU TO TALK TO
TILL WE MEET IN THE ETERNAL PLACE
WORDS CAN NOT CONVEY
JUST HOW MUCH YOU HAVE MEANT
THE EARTH IS NOT THE SAME
WITHOUT YOU IN IT
WE ALL TRY TO PULL TOGETHER
AS YOU WOULD HAVE US DO
I WILL CARRY YOU IN MY HEART
BUT THE ACHE AND TEARS AREN’T THROUGH

hugs


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/10/2006 4:08 am

The world is not the same when a parent is gone...My condolences...
hugs,
Pinkplaytoyz


Synn74 42F
1206 posts
2/10/2006 2:39 pm

*hugs*



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
2/10/2006 11:55 pm

sorry for you loss my sympathy goe out to you and you loved ones.


acpp 61M
7 posts
2/11/2006 1:03 am

The sadness will go to happy memories.sometimes slowly sometime quickly,but it always happens,they will eventually go to just a twinge of sadness and then happy follows quickly and then eventually fondness and happy havent got passed that part yet,and it has taken reflection and inner work to get to this point,its been 3 years but has gotten better love and peace acpp


Allsleeky 36F

2/11/2006 3:16 pm

My deepest sympathies.


rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
2/11/2006 5:04 pm

IN MEMORY Do not stand at my grave and weep for I am not there, I do not sleep. When you are a waken in the morning hush, I am that gentle up lifting rush. I am now the bright star and moon that guide you threw your days and nights.

I am now the falling rain, that washes away your sorrow and pain. I am the breeze, softly caressing your cheeks. I am the bright shimmer of the freshly fallen snow. I am the warm light that kisses the morning dew.

I am the whisper of birds in flight. Rejoice in my passing for I am now in a better place, where I am able to protect, care and watch over you, while you are among the rat race.

Please do not stand at my grave and cry. For I did not die.

Sept,1998© bct2esi


maria1959 57F

2/11/2006 9:43 pm

My thoughts and prayers to you as well, my mom passed sometime ago, yes time does make it easier, but the missing her never seems to fade. Take care and hug's to you.


campfirecozy 67M

2/13/2006 1:17 pm

'Truly sorry about your loss. I know firsthand that this isn't a fun time for you...but take your mom's advice to heart.


TTigerAtty 62M

2/16/2006 11:54 am

I'm truly sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.


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