How Soon Is Too Soon?  

shwagurl 38F
11 posts
5/4/2006 12:49 pm

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5/5/2006 11:26 pm

How Soon Is Too Soon?

Would like to know what the consensus is on meeting a new person and then having sex?

When is the appropriate time after your original meeting to have sex?
Same day
After 2nd date
After 1 month
Longer than 1 month


bipolybabe 54F

5/4/2006 2:03 pm

I don't have any rules about "appropriate." It simply depends on how the situation feels to me. I have discovered, though, that I get the "fucked over" and used feeling less often if I resist the temptation to jump his bones immediately. Usually, my body wants to leap on top of the ones who are unavailable. Damn that traitorous bitch!

So, I meet, chat and then get to know him, by going rollerblading or hiking or things I really like to do, before deciding to engage in any kind of sexplay. I also request for the first "sex date" that we not assume we'll have intercourse, that we just consider it a chance to play naked without any expectations or pressure. It works pretty well for both parties, because men have performance anxiety, too.

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