Shock, Awe, and ?  

shooter0085 41M
194 posts
8/14/2006 12:35 pm

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Shock, Awe, and ?

Normally, I choose not to write about such subjects, but today I am feeling like a risk taker. I have been on this site now for almost a year under this Handle. I use to have another, but never participated in the magazine section. I am absolutely shocked at the amount of women on here that are beautiful in more ways than one.

You know, when I first came here, I came here looking for sex, and sex only. As I have strolled the many pages and combed through 100's of profiles, I can honestly say that I have met some of the most interesting, sexy, intelligent, and fascinating people. I am convinced that the reason for this is the anonymity that the cyber world provides. Think about this for a second....You can actually get seduced through words on here! Attributes of another's soul imprinted on your very screen and mind. WOW! And, if we are lucky enough...we get their picture....and their HOT too!

The great feature of anonymity is that you can say or do whatever comes to mind. As long as your honest in your intention, and your words are factual, what have you to loose? Of course, the down side is that many choose to lie and not be so forth-coming. My question is this: What is the worst experience that you have had here?

Here is mine:

The worst experience that I had here was with a woman that had sent me a wink. I responded to her in an e-mail and she almost instantaneously asked for my IM address. I sent it to her, (I was horny! lol). After 3 mins of chatting, she asked for my phone number. So I gave it, (Again, I was horny). She called within seconds and asked if I would like to get together right now. I did catch myself this time and said that I would agree once I had seen a photo of her. She obliged, and I received the pic in seconds. So, I said sure come on up and visit me in the showroom. She was here in 10 mins. Let me just say...UGH! Not even close to the photo! The photo had to be at least 15 years old! lol. I think that is all the detail that I need to go into.

* Needless to say, I will not meet someone now, until I have cammed with them and spoken to them over the phone while camming.*

juicy856 39M/34F

8/14/2006 1:04 pm

a girl once asked if i were interested in her and her picture was really cute, but it wasn't close up. so than after i say i was interested she turns the pic off on her profile and sends a couple as attachments. it wasn't the same girl at all. the only thing they had in common was the hair cut. lets just say she was not my cup of tea. i stopped writing her after that.

and my other worst experience was this guy that basically told me that i am the girl that is interested in taking nude photos and doing porn with him so he can post it all over the web. he told me not asked me. plus i'm not looking for a guy. it's one thing to stop by and say i think you are beautiful, and another to demand porn services from a married lady. he also stated something along the lines that he wanted to degrade me asshole

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 2:31 pm:
Part 1: Sorry that happened to you. Some people I just do not understand.
Part 2: Wow, thats all I can say. WOW. What a jackass.


8/14/2006 2:28 pm

What if you and someone chat over time and you really hit it off. You and she click as it were. Perhaps you even develop some sort of feelings for one another through conversations, would you let all of that go if she didn't look just right? I dunno, I guess it's not really realistic to think two people would talk for any length of time without exchanging pics. I understand the whole deal about physical and mental attractiveness going hand in hand but really, how ugly was this girl??? I for one would never send a pic that didn't actually look like me because I could never meet someone after that. I dunno, I guess another question in all this could be "how important are looks"? Sorry for rambling on your blog lol.

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 5:11 pm:
Well to answer your question, to me she was really not what I was expecting. I will leave the rest to your imagination. All in all I have had many good experiences here. I agree the mental connection is wonderful to start, but no, it is not all important. There is a combination of all things about the person.

steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/14/2006 4:04 pm

What totally disgusts me are the men who do the 'dummy move' and leave a comment in your blog that doesnt even relate to the topic of it but insists on trying to be slick by saying something you really dont want to see.Like this morning....first comment I had to wake up to seeing in my blog. "I bet youre really great at what you do,according to your pic.Let me know when youre available."
OK....what makes him think thats gonna charm me? THATS RIGHT! It didnt. Who cares what kind of pic I have posted,really...there is alot more to me than just that. And for the record, YES, I am great at it! LMAO! BUT, that doesnt mean I'd do it with anyone- just the ones that actually deserve it. lol
There's gotta be a mutual attraction. Its not a free for all.
Whew! Thanks...I feel better now!

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 5:18 pm:
Hey, your welcome! Anytime you want to come here and vent is fine with long as you agree with me, your host! LOL. Yeah, I was just telling somebody that I just met here how shocked I am at the complete ignorance and arrogance of some people here. I have only gotten comment from somebody like that on my blog. She said something like, "you are so fucking hot darlin', I want to feel your hard body against mine." While I am flattered, like you, just because I have a sexy, hard body, doesn't mean I am just here for the sex. For the Love of Pete, look at my damn blog sexy don't you think? LMAO!

rm_222when911 45M/42F
5206 posts
8/14/2006 9:19 pm

I am sure there are many people who are fine that cannot cam, but I get your reason. I have met a few people who seem to have a WONDERFUL photographer!You knwo dewsperate clients cause you the most trouble. If it is an emergency, they will ride you to the end! Easy sale? Full margin? Happy Customer!! Same deal. You are just getting to the real deal without the BS by creating filters for all the idiots. 90/10. You are right about the anonimity, but at some point it becomes put up or shut up. F- the liars! (excuse my ......) I have found my interest and my intent have changed since the inception of joining the sight. I still like "Sounds From Inside My Mind." J

"You may think I'm a little off center, but if you really knew me you'd run~!"

shooter0085 replies on 8/15/2006 5:59 am:
I know exactly where you are coming from.

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