Dental Dams  

shooter0085 41M
194 posts
8/10/2006 8:09 am

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Dental Dams

Yesterday I saw a very disturbing post in the AL's about dental dams. What is this world coming to? Why would anybody ever use these? Don't get me wrong, I believe in protected sex, but protected oral sex? Look at this picture to the left, does this do anything for you? Has sexual relations become that promiscuous that we have to protect ourselves during oral sex now? Whatever happend to getting to know each other first? I just find this weird and disturbing....what do you think?

steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/11/2006 11:41 am

Whoa! Now, thats too funny! I never heard of that before til now.

Yeah...I think they're taking it a bit too far! How can anyone get "the feeling" using that? lol

shooter0085 replies on 8/11/2006 2:11 pm:
Talk about a mood killer, huh? Why? Thats all I keep thinking, Why?

rm_222when911 45M/42F
5206 posts
8/11/2006 3:04 pm

I am with you Shooter- weird and disturbing. I would prefer dry humping the couch (not that I would, but the lengths I would go to keep that dental dam somewhere else are really great). How do you work in the day-glo body paint and the hot oil? Do they have flavored dental dams? What's the visibility like? (looks a little yellow....could make the other side look a little off) That should be left for the other 90%. J

"You may think I'm a little off center, but if you really knew me you'd run~!"

shooter0085 replies on 8/12/2006 6:08 am:
Yes actually they do have flavored DD's, and they do come in different colors! But, yeah Dry Humping the couch does seem more attractive doesn't it? LOL

rm_poetictrance 51M/48F
21 posts
8/13/2006 6:26 am

OMG this is a hoot!

for me, its either be with a partner you know is safe where you can experience all of each other, or nothing at all.

it looks like it may be cutting off her oxygen flow...

shooter0085 replies on 8/13/2006 7:41 am:
I know...seriously! Help, help......I can't breathe! LOL

Sixthandpowell 47F

8/13/2006 10:33 pm

I know, I agree, it must not feel very good, really. At the same time, if you're all over the place with different partners, licking and sucking, I think this would have to be the way to go.

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 5:05 am:
true, this is why I asked whatever happened to getting to know each other first? When I see that I do not know whether to laugh or cry for humanity as a whole!

Hippink 35F
4499 posts
8/14/2006 8:41 am

Promiscuity of variety takes all the enjoyment out of sex, so I don't understand why people bother.
There's a good argument in favour of monogamy, definitely.

I can see the need for protected oral sex if you already know the person has an infection of some sort, and there's some reason why both partners wish to have the sexual relationship despite that fact. If a disease is already present, I would hope that the infected person has learned to stay with one partner.

But... as you suggested, getting to know someone... you're always basing the idea of relative safety on what the person SAYS, not on actual facts.

When sex gets to the point of having to use dental dams or condoms during oral sex... it's time to STOP fooling around with so many partners.
Hippie XXX

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 11:51 am:
I don't think that I could've said it better. Well Done.

SexySadie1955 61F

8/14/2006 4:21 pm

Yea, but there are some real assholes on this site, be careful ladies. Some men say they are clean and have "papers" to prove it. Don't believe everyone, just because they say they are clean and talk up a good story about how they are. I had been with one man in 7 years, and then I got herpies from a "clean" guy I met on this site and dated for months.He dumped me when the next opportunity came around. Now I have to make my men wear the dental damn or not get eaten at all. I call it just that.. I call it a "Damn". It's my loss all because I let a guy who said he was clean, and who said he loved me and wanted to commit fuck me. I live and learn, but want to warn other people this could be you writing.

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 5:30 pm:
Wow, I am sorry that happened to you. Thanks for dropping by, you come around more often. I always have fresh coffee and we are 24/7 here.

shooter0085 replies on 8/14/2006 5:33 pm:
One more thing, let me express to you how honored I am that I am your first post. Welcome!

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