lets go fellas help out!  

shes38DD 45M/46F
27 posts
6/15/2006 11:08 pm

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8/19/2006 8:12 am

lets go fellas help out!

I asked for some help on how to help my wife feel more comfortable with herself...She knows I want her. I can't keep my hands off her.. Can you please give me some Ideas? She likes to fuck and I like to see her fuck other men. However, while we have been doing this for a while she is afraid men wont like her.

rm_needsmoreluv 52M
20 posts
6/15/2006 11:38 pm

send me some pics and I'll do my best to help

snafu371964 52M

6/16/2006 8:37 am

Self esteem or the way a person thinks others view them can only be improved upon by that person. You can make them feel good and wanted, but if they don't like themselves or feel that others don't like them then they are going to tend to think that. My suggestion would be for you and your wife to meet someone a few times in a non sexual way; drinks, movies, etc... Then she could get a reading for how they feel about her. Some guys are just gonna want her for sex and then some may want to actually be friends with you and her.

joeyhaha63 53M/50F
7 posts
6/17/2006 3:30 pm

my girlfriend is this way also but she wants to play with other couples. we will probably meet first and then once she's comfortable move on

shes38DD 45M/46F

6/19/2006 11:39 pm

thanks Joey.

nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
6/25/2006 9:07 am

probably going to take time to realize that she is attractive to alot of men, not just you..

snafu371964 52M

6/25/2006 11:17 am

Have you guys gone to any of the meet n greets that are listed on the Playing in SA board? Or have you met anyone at a bar or restaurant or some other non threatening way? Have you two tried chatting either here or somewhere else like Yahoo? Maybe you could meet some people like that? Then build on a friendship that may lead to more. My two cents worth is: A lot of people place too much emphasis on looks without getting to know the other person/people before making a decision on liking them or not. Or having pre conceived ideas on what they think they may like, Tall or thin or perky tits, etc... I've met (just in regular life not in a sexual way) some "big" women and after getting to know them think they are sexier than say Pam Anderson. Anyway, just my two cents.

7grinder7 53M

6/26/2006 7:58 pm

hey shes a hottie i dont see why there would be a problem mmmmmmm

SirMounts 102M

6/27/2006 11:02 am

Welcome to blogging, shes38DD.

7grinder7 53M

6/27/2006 6:23 pm

ih a man wouldnt like her he has to be crazy like i said shes hot and i would love to make her hotter....

OdorsCutinPinon 54M
4 posts
7/1/2006 6:18 pm

cant see how men wouldnt like her so she shouldnt feel that way as she has all the right curves in the right places i think. I for one would love to be all over her and make her feel real special thats for sure. I think she would be very erotic and real fun to be with and hope that one day i get the chance to show her she is.

DDDRoundandJuicy 47F

7/8/2006 11:05 pm

let me tell you what has worked for me....without my husbands help...Pictures...lots and lots and lots. Post the good ones...dont even let her see the bad ones...out of approx 200 pictures I think I have 25 good ones...and every one of those is posted somewhere...then I get emails...posts on my blog *wink wink to 38DDD husband* saying how I get them all hot and bothered...for the last month I have attracted more men in real life than ever before in my life...I was a size 14 in college years...good looking blonde with big tits, but even then I did not get the same attention...and i am a size 22.

I guess it is the old saying "fake it until you make it" take the most flattering pictures...of her ass...her tits...maybe her eyes...or lips (mouth) and start an online photo album..point people in that direction and watch her blossom...take my word, once she hears the responses she will feel better, once she feels better...well honey you better watch out....they will be lined up at your door and she wont blink an eye knowing with confidence that she has got what it takes...

shes38DD 45M/46F

7/9/2006 1:41 am

your the best juicy. Thank you it helps to get advice from like minded people. Your husband is seriously missing the boat on not apreciating your incredible bod.. Thanks again.

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