To Talk or not to talk? That is the question.  

shes38DD 45M/46F
27 posts
7/3/2006 12:19 am

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11/1/2006 10:01 pm

To Talk or not to talk? That is the question.

Have any of you met a person on here and decide, (as we do) that you would rather talk to a person via phone before meeting? If you have, was it satisfying for you? We have spoken to a few people, well guys, on the phone while having sex. Just to let them know what we sound like and what were into. However, every single time the guy has whimped out. Either they came and went down or wanted to come over. We are parents and cannot just have anyone over at anytime. So I am asking my sisters: and brothers in sexual fantasia; do you talk to your partners to be on the phone? If you do does it help you? If you don't is it better to just have the mystique of strangers that turns you on? I guess I am just asking. should I stop talking to these guys; whom, never materialize as actual people instead of men who want to have actual sex with me and my hubbie. If I wanted that I could just masturbate..Right!! Help out if you can

rob3481000 40M

7/3/2006 10:23 am

i have never done any thing like that so i can not help you but i would be interested in trying and not whimping out like those guys, i am a real man a firefighter, lol, lets talk and see what happens, e-mail me at roberte111 at y*hoo and lets chat, i think you are a sexy beautiful women, so if your interested just let me know, later,

shes38DD 45M/46F

7/4/2006 1:36 am

write to me sweetie, I love Fireman

nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
7/4/2006 7:34 am

i would definatly want to speak with them over the phone before meeting them...their are alot of weridos out their and you have to protect your family.....may i suggest maybe webcamming as another idea.....i would love to chat with you guys ....

rob3481000 40M

7/7/2006 1:26 pm

hey beautiful, whats your e-mail adress and i will write you and we can talk, hope to hear back from you, also check my blog out,later

rm_TexySexsuns 103M/103F
29 posts
7/19/2006 1:15 pm

Talking on the phone is always a good idea. Getting people to show up has always been a problem.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
8/19/2006 9:19 am

I dont have to talk to them on the phone, but we like to email and IM and then arrange to meet for a drink, from there we decide if we will move forward.

Purry {=}


Mexlovin 44M

9/10/2006 7:01 pm

I agree with Purry.. It helps with the awkward silence. And drinks yum I love drinks.

aaabudsa 49M  
37 posts
9/30/2006 3:52 pm


With the NO SHOW rate so very high, at least for me, I now ask to speak to the them before I will meet with them or if not exchange face pictures. I see "speaking on the phone" or face pictures, as making a little bit more a commitment to possibly meeting. I am not really into phone sex, again, because I am not into cyber or phone sex. I joined and paid my membership to AdultFriendFinder to MEET women and couples.
And...and...even talking on the phone I have still had a few say they will meet, only NOT to show up.

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