Curious n' Confus'd...  

shebaby23 54F
85 posts
6/22/2005 11:13 am

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Curious n' Confus'd...

I am a curious girl...often' has been known' to get me..into..ummmm..
troublin'...situations'...from time to time...

However, that does' not seem to stop me...from tryin' once again...an' again'...or...should I phrase that like a song'...

Time to Start Workin' on my Next Broken' Heart...

Thus, the age ol' delimma' of what attracts'...a female to a male...mmmm...and why the hell...the ones' I am attracted' to...are so very wrong' for me???

So...just out of curiousity...would like to ask any males' out there who have managed to read this far without gettin' annoy'd...with my writin' style...lol..."What are 3 things' that attract you to a female???"

And to not leave you ladies' out...same question in reverse...(I think)...lol..."What gets' your attention...the first 3 things' about a male???"

Just Curious Girl...today'...shebaby'


luvdarkchocolate 55F

6/22/2005 11:41 am

His color, his voice, his wit -- followed closely by some degree of good looks, sense of humor, and his attraction to me.


rm_marc44054 63M
936 posts
6/22/2005 12:44 pm

for me it's honesty, passion and zest for life. Your writing is fine, keep it up


rm_SevenMead 37M

6/22/2005 1:24 pm

Three things that would make me walk up to a girl.

1. Something that stands out telling me she's even the slightest bit unique

2. Open Air Confidence. Thy shy routine does nothing for me. If fact I prefer they be more on the abrasive side.

3. Cute.
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Three things that keep me around.

1. She is aware. Meaning here brain hasn't been fried by telvision and fashion magazines. Being wicked smart and funny would be 10 out of 10 here. Easy-going is in here too... somewhere.

2. Independant. She shouldn't need anything from me except me.

3. Attractive. This is, sort of, balance between cute and physically able. You don't have to run a marathon or anything but it should be obviouse that you don't sit on your ass all day. I mean if your being chased through the woods by a bear or something, you should at least have some chance of getting away.


ByteChaser2 52M

6/22/2005 1:38 pm

Good question... One that's asked a lot actually. Lets see...

1. I'm male... and visually oriented - as are most men in my opinion - so the very first thing the catches my eye is "the look". I'm particularly fond of a certain kind of face and body though certainly not one to turn a girl away just because she doesn't fit my mold. Learned that in my later years...

2. Again with the visuals... The smile. I swear I'm like a little puppy in the park for a woman who has a dazzling, unihibited smile. And you know, the most beautiful people, the ones that seem to exude complete sexuality, SMILE.

3. Ok, one more visual... She still looks great the morning after, bed head, smeared makeup and all.

Now, what keeps me coming back? Nothing as shallow as the visual cues already mentioned... Strength, character, laughter. Communicative without whining about her problems constantly (I have enough of my own, thanks). A woman who feels as at home at a glamorous restaurant as she does jumping around on the bed. Someone who has no compunction to strike up a conversation with a total stranger. With goals and aspirations and dreams for her future.

Oh... and green eyes!


74ShovelHD 53M

6/22/2005 1:41 pm

When I see a woman for the first time, I look at everything... her face, hair, legs, and yes, even her breasts!!. I look at the way she walks, does she take care of herself, does she seem confident, or does she look like the wind will blow her over. Once I get to know someone, then I look more at her mind... how does she think, and that becomes more important than her looks/body!!

As they say, the first thing a man thinks about when he sees a woman is how'd she be in the sack, right?

My question to the ladies here is do woman do the same thing???


rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
6/22/2005 1:48 pm

I've studied this for many years.I think it's what we see in the eyes.I can tell a great deal about someone with one look.They truly are the windows to the soul.I knew long ago I was attracted to the wrong type, so I tried to find out why.How many times have you heard "they seemed so nice, but turned out like all the others"?I believe we can all tell more than we realize about someone and if they're you're type (good or bad) you're attracted.Now if I feel that very strong pull I step back and take a slow look.It's always the same type it never fails, so if you find yourself with the wrong kind if you don't relize it you will do it over and over.


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/22/2005 2:19 pm

1. wit
2. pride in her development
3. eyes
one more
4. financial statement LOL

[blog talldarkavg1]


buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/22/2005 2:41 pm

Three things.
1. Attitude (as in looks at the brite side, not the woe is me type)
2. Knowing what she wants and being able to communicate it.
3. Acceptance of reality

With those three in place the rest is easy.


penetang9 66M

6/22/2005 2:46 pm

Her 'joi de vivre' and enthusiasm for life, her willingness to laugh at herself and not take herself too seriously, and that she has a sexy mind and knows she has a srong sex drive she'w determined to fulfill


TheDodger8 45M

6/22/2005 2:47 pm

shebaby you rock! you write just like me! You write as you think and I LOVE it! I am adding you to my watched blogs you beautiful thing you!

What attracts me to women.... wow that is tough cuz there are some many things... hmm... contrary to popular belief, it is not boobs or legs.... it is more. I think I am mostly attracted to women who are happy?..if that makes sense. When a girl is happy she has a kind of look on her face that's just.....great. I like curves a lot...and the way a woman walks is a huge turn on. I love watching a womans belt line shift when she walks, from the front..so I am not even talking about her butt. But then a nice but doesn't hurt along with nice hair, good skin, pretty eyes (any color), a great smile, legs, arms, shoulders, oh...and OH MY GOD, lets not forget the toes....ETC.. you name it.. I like it. LOL


shebaby23 54F
29 posts
6/23/2005 2:02 am

Thank you...each of you...appreciate your takin' time and your comments'...nice to hear...and nice to meetcha'....too...to not be...leavin' ya on the spot...here are mine:
1) soft stern whisperin' voice...I am..just such a verbal orientated' girl...
2) eyes'...oooh..you know' those that can...look right into me...see the real me...devour you with a heat'd gaze..."that look"...
3) strong hands'...the kind that can fix..things' I break..lol..and yet...can PET me...to make it all better...and can hold me...down when I quiver n' shake'...

Again'...thanks' for sharin'...wishes in the wind from...shebaby'


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