Do Men Get It?  

shavedkitten22 39F
12 posts
12/19/2005 5:55 pm

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Do Men Get It?

Why can't a man realize when you are not really into the sexual event that is occuring, I mean if you are licking my pussy and I am not responding 9 times out of 10 it is becaue either you are not turning me on or two I am just not interested; and at that point I feel like I am just doing it to please you instead of us pleasing each other I mean isn't that what sex is all about?

Or maybe I am missing something!

iluvjbsinaz 55M

12/19/2005 6:05 pm

Not missing a thing and be selfish. If he isn't turning you on or you don't like what he is doing, tell him! We are simple creatures and sometimes don't think past our own crotch.

BigPapa6131961 55M

12/19/2005 6:15 pm

Sometimes...we men are too stupid for our own good. We all could use a little guidance. Thank God my earliest sexual experiences included women who weren't afraid to tell me what they wanted. What felt good. Do this. Don't do that. For me...communication is the key for mutual satisfaction (like you said - isn't that what sex is all about?). Best wishes.

widowsaddiction 47F

12/19/2005 6:29 pm

I think you are missing something SK....I learned a long time ago to bring my vibrator. HA!

tmp1230 47F
12 posts
12/19/2005 7:15 pm

Honey, please don't be like all those women who say they are fine when they are really mad at the man they are with. Some people are not mind readers, you have to tell them how you feel or how to please you. Don't be afraid to say that it's not working or I'm just not interested in you. Saves a LOT of time.

roger_therabbit 65M
7 posts
12/19/2005 8:00 pm

Men think with there smaller head more often then with the one on there shoulders. What can I say been there, done that.....

rm_in2sweet 44M
1 post
12/19/2005 8:33 pm

Just tell us what you want .. and help yourself. Afterall, we are there to give !

rm_chowbox2005 43M

12/20/2005 1:39 pm

For Shame! Who could let a sexy woman like yourself go unsatisfied! You poor thing.

Seriously though, I've had some bad head in my day, and she just kept chompping away. It sucked. I have to admit that I have never heard of a woman receiving bad oral though. It's just not fair!


Dizzleup1 38M
2 posts
12/22/2005 8:51 am

I completely understand what you're saying. Sex is about connecting even if it is for the moment. If there is no spark than you move on and try a new position, right? There's more than one way to please a woman, and sometimes guys think they do it by doing what they like only. Listen to the woman and watch her body and breathing, follow that and you'll please her everytime!

ChivasRegal 57M
69 posts
12/22/2005 3:41 pm

You know the old saying "you can't pleased everyone all the time.", and "you can't be pleased all the time", thats what makes the world go round.

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