Don't die yet...  

shar1 55F
786 posts
3/4/2006 4:03 pm

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3/19/2006 5:32 am

Don't die yet...

When lurking around the blogs today I came across one written by CoffeeNoCream, about what would happen to your blog if you died suddenly.

Have had a similar conversation with a few friends from here and its scary stuff.

A while ago my 'special friend' was rushed into hospital with heart complications and of course I didn't know until he was given his phone back and he could contact me. I thought it was strange that I hadn't heard from him but wouldn't allow myself to think anything else.

But here's the thing, I have met some lovely people on this site and have made some good friends, but how would I know if anything happened and them if anything happens to me.
We tend to keep AdultFriendFinder and people we meet from the site as a secret so how do you let them know??

Imagine how difficult it could be not being able to visit a sick friend without causing them difficulties, or worse loosing a friend from this site... all too horrible to think about, but think about it I do.

I have some wonderful memories because of people from this site and I can't always share these with friends and family, and so they will be lost if anything happens to me.

Unfair isn't it?

HBowt2 59F

3/6/2006 3:20 am

It's a pretty horrible thought....never knowing and never being able to say goodbye

Shaxy 44M

3/5/2006 5:24 pm

You know Shar1 I had a similar thought too but from a slightly different angle.

I wondered what if something happened to me and my family came to sort through my stuff. What would they think about me being on this site? And what would they think if they saw some of the more naughty pictures of me that I took at the behest of some of my contacts? The thought of my mother looking at a piture of my erect bits would be enough to make me die - if I weren't dead already. Needless to say I have password protected my pc so if anything happens my secret dies with me.

Sulabula 45F
12659 posts
3/5/2006 10:21 am

I have often wondered that....if something happened to us who would let our online friends know...they would inform the relatives and friends...but what about the people we met online that are just as special to us...Dosen't bare thinking about


Sula xxx

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suprcunnilingus 56M
212 posts
3/5/2006 5:48 am

It is very unfair and does not bear thinking about X. I suppose it is one of the prices we may have to pay for our secret pleasures... but I hope it never comes to that.

Take care my Princess of Dangerous Delights

CPP xxx

_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

3/5/2006 3:42 am


Liefs C

Chocomocha918 48F

3/4/2006 5:11 pm

Hello.. I read your insights and I want to comment

Well.. I met a man here two months ago not personally but thru internet.Im talking from the internet shop when he saw me on cam.but of course im with clothes.. well, to cut it short.. we fell in love. But everytime weere scheduled to meet.. theres always something that happend which i dont understand if he designed for that.
What scares me most was End of February when He said hes coming to meet me March 6 in Beijing. But again, Sunday before that he said.. he will be going to the hospital. Monday, I received emails from unknown person that pretends to be his brother but just because I was very concern how is he going so I talked with him thru email.
Till One day I received a break up letter. Im wondering.. Why, we come here to be kill our times of boredom. and If me we meet the right relation. this happened? Do you think its unfair to your partner? Its not easy to invest feelings.. considering not all women looks after money or sex. As a woman I have feelings. I know how to be hurt... Until now, Im wondering How he was .. Hes from Netherlands.. I love him to be honest.. but if leaving him makes him happy and the rest od his family then i do it. But I hope theres one day he can read this blog... Distance is always a problem to everybody here yes... but at least maybe we can cross.. who knows. Its nice to feel happy.. to be loved and to love.. Then , why hinders?
Its unfair... really unfair. My calls hasnt been answered. If in case hes fooling me.. maybe he shouldnt spend money buying me computer or calling me thrice a day.. etc. Im confuse about this man
But One thing for sure.. Hes is my heart no matter. I just wonder how is he right now no way of communicating... and tears just cant be controlled. There are nights I cried and close my eyes and pray
that even We havent met and will never see each other.. May he always
be well.. and pray nothing bad happened


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
3/4/2006 4:31 pm


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