When to let go  

shamgirl2004 35F
5 posts
6/20/2006 1:37 am

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6/22/2006 12:21 am

When to let go

When do let someone you love go? I have been driving myself crazy over this. I do not want it to be over, but I have no choice but to accept it. Do I move on and try to find what I had? Do I sit and wait for it to come back? What do I do? Sit with a gallon of ice cream and write blogs all day long? The questions that have no answers, everyone is different, but if you love someone with every ounce that you can and they just break up with you how do you go on? How do you stop yoursel from telling them you love them everytime you talk to them?
Enough....Move On girl, just do not dwell on it, If you love something let it go right? Guess I answered my own question.

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
6/21/2006 10:12 pm


You have probably figured out it is much easier said than done. It would probably be best if you didn't speak at all for a time...say 90 days, and see what happens.

Nobody (including yourself) can tell you how to feel...so feel it.

Lastly, just give yourself time to grieve the loss...just like you would a death...and time does have a way of helping.

In the mean time, welcome to blogging...I hope this place helps you like it has me.


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