Promises  

shadodragonette 43F
14 posts
10/13/2005 11:54 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Promises


Has everyone become fake? Is everyone so jaded that they can't give another human being a chance? A chance at friendship, love, sex, anything, all based on looks or money or material possesions...

If I say I am going to do something, I do my best to keep my word. I don't play mind games. I don't want anyone playing mind games with me or my friends. By Hades, if someone says they want to meet me, I expect them to do it. If someone says they will write, call, whatever, I expect them to do just what they said. I get so mad when someone stands up my friends, doesn't call when they say they will or doesn't write when they promised. It's a sad world that people make such promsises so lightly, with no intention of keeping them.

These chics keep blowing off my friend, like he has no feelings. They claim to want to meet him, they call him sometimes, give him their number, but when push comes to shove, they disappear, leaving him with the opinion women are game-playing bitches without hearts. These women give ALL women a bad name!

Then there are the ones who play games with me. Like the one who promised to meet me, then never showed, and I never heard from her again. A friend of hers told me she had been too inebriated and passed out. There is some married guy jerking me around, originally saying he and his wife were looking, but he wanted to meet me alone, without her... If she's looking, I want her there! Otherwise, I'm not sure she even knows HE is looking! Even if she's not, I want reassurance from HER that it's okay for him to play around.

I'm so sick of the games, of the brushoffs... If not for a very, very few people on here, I'd just quit altogether- not even try to explore my sexuality further than I have. Maybe live like a hermit- because if everyone is turning into this type of person, I want nothing to do with any of them! I have no time or energy to waste on fakery, nor desire to play these stupid mindgames. I'm tired of wondering if I'm being jerked around again, or if this person, this couple, might be for real.

If these few turn out to be like the rest, I guess I'll go ahead and quit. It's not like it's doing me any good to bang my head on a brick wall.

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

10/14/2005 1:00 am

OMG--I COULD NOT HAVE WROTE THAT BETTER MYSELF...ARE YOU IN MY HEAD.
I GET TO HEAR THE--YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL, YOUR SO HOT, I WANT YOU SO BAD, I NEED TO BE WITH YOU, I WANT TO HOLD YOU, I CAN'T WAIT TO KISS YOU... THEN POOF NOTHING. WELL IF I AM SO DAMN WONDERFUL AND GOOD, WHY AM I ALONE ON HERE EVERY NIGHT? WELL I WAS TOLD ONCE IT IS BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS LIVES AND DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME AND HAS OTHER OBLIGATIONS. WELL IF YA DONT EVEN HAVE ONE MINUTE TO RETURN AN E-MAIL OR MAKE A PHONE CALL OR SEND A TEXT TO JUST SAY HELLO, THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU EVEN ON HERE LOOKIN AND MAKING CONTACT WITH ANYONE?YEAH TAKE MY PHONE NUMBER, AND NEVER CALL, TAKE DOWN MY E-MAIL ADDRESS AND NEVER WRITE...WTF


rm_loversraman 32M
1 post
10/14/2005 1:57 am

your picture plz


SINFULLUST2 45M
4 posts
10/14/2005 5:59 am

IS IT LEGAL WITH THE SITE TO POST DEADBEATS ON YOUR BLOG PAGE?
IF SO, START A LIST, AND COMMENT HOW YOU WERE TREATED, AT THE VERY LEAST IT VENTS YOUR FEELINGS, SO YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL HUMILATED, PLAYED, OR JUST PLAIN SCREWED. I KNOW IT SUCKS, GETTING STOODUP WHILE WASTING YOUR PRECIOUS TIME, WAITING ON SOMEONE TO SHOWUP FOR AN ENCOUNTER, JUST MAKE SURE IT IS IN A PUBLIC PLACE FOR YOURS AND THEIR PROTECTION, WE ARE ALL EMMOTIONALLY FRAGILE, AFTER OUR CONFIDENCE HAS BEEN DENTED OR EVEN SHATTERED, BUT WE ARE HUMAN. I AM READING YOU AS A DOMINATE SPIRIT, A SUGGESTION, IF I MAY, HAVE NUMEROUS CONVERSATIONS, WITH THE PERSON, LISTEN TO THEM, DO THEY SOUND NERVOUS? LIMITED IN SHARING THEMSELVES IN THE CONVERSATIONS?
DO THEY SOUND FULL OF CRAP? TO GOOD TO BE TRUE? IN MY EXPERIENCES, ( STANDUPS, STOODUPS, FALSE IDENTIES, PICS, 1ST ENCOUNTERS WERE MY FAULT) I DID NOT LISTEN FOR THE TELL TALE SIGNS AS I MENTIONED ABOVE, WE AS HUMANS WILL GIVE OURSELVES AWAY GIVEN AMPLE TIME,& IT TAKES TIME AND IF YOUR POPULAR A STEEL TRAP MIND, SO KEEP A WRITTEN LOG IF YOU CAN, JOTTING THINGS DOWN ABOUT THAT PERSON, ITS GOOD FOR YOUR MEMORY & PROTECTION IF SOMETHING GOES SOUTH. AND ABOVE ALL AS YOU DID NOT MENTION THIS, OUR YOU BEING UPFRONT WITH THEM? I KNOW ALOT OF US ON THIS SITE MAY NOT BE WHAT WE APPEAR TO BE. AS WE ARE THE ONLY TWO PEOPLE ON THIS POST I SEE THAT HAVE POSTED PHOTOS. I KNOW SOME PEOPLE DONT HAVE A CAMERA/SCANNER. KINKOS, STAPLES, OFFICE DEPOT, LOCAL CAMERA OR FILM PROCESSING PLACES DO THIS SERVICE FOR UNDER $20.00 AND GIVE YOU A DISK.
KEEP YOUR CHINS UP, LISTEN, AND HEARTS OPEN, AND DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL IF YOU GET STOOD UP, REMEMBER WE WERE ALL TAUGHT NOT TO TALK TO STRANGERS & AND THATS WHAT WE ARE "STRANGERS". IF YOU NEED TO MEET PEOPLE FACE TO FACE A.S.A.P GO TO YOUR LOCAL CLUB,BAR,CHURCH, PARK, GROCERY STORE. THIS IS A GREAT WEBSITE, AND IS AWESOME FOR MEETING EXCEPTIONAL PEOPLE, LIKE YOURSELVES, WITH THE SAME DESIRES, BUT IT IS NOT TANGABLE, ALOT OF PEOPLE ROLE PLAY THEMSELVES JUST TO GET THEIR ATTENTION FIX, SO BUYER BEWARE!
AND TO ADD I SEE NO VICTIMS HERE, YOU ARE ALL ADULTS, AND WANT TO PASS BLAME, "HE/SHE STOOD ME UP","I'M A VICTIM" BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THESE ACTIONS. TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW SOMEONE, THROUGH EMAIL, CONVERSATIONS ON THE PHONE, I GET ALOT OF THESE " WHEN CAN WE MEET?" OR "CAN WE ME IN AN HOUR", I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH MY OWN HARD KNOCKS, TO RELAX,WAIT,TALK, AN ENCOUNTER IS A LAST RESORT UNTIL YOU CAN B/S ON THE PHONE AWHILE, SEE IF THE PERSON IS FULL OF B/S. IT IS NOT EASY TO FIND SOMEONE TO FULFILL YOUR DESIRES WITH, AND IT SHOULDNT BE. " THERE IS MORE TO LIFE, THAN SITTING IN FRONT OF A PC ON OBSERVING ADS ON A WEBSITE" GET A LIFE, GO TO THE CLUB, MEET THE PEOPLE THERE, AT THE VERY LEAST THEY DID SHOW UP.

I QOUTE FROM DUMBLEDORF " IT DOES NOT DO WELL, TO DWELL UPON DREAMS AND FORGET TO LIVE." END QOUTE. GET OFF YOUR BUTTS AND GO OUT, YOU DONT HAVE TO DRINK, BUT DANCING, CONVERSATION, LOUD ASS MUSIC DOES THE SOUL WELL. HOPE ALL YOUR DESIRES COME TRUE.

SINFUL L.


shadodragonette 43F

10/15/2005 12:51 am

Don't give me the excuse people are shy- I AM SHY!!! I have panic attacks in crowds! But I try not to let that stop me from living! If someone has a real problem with meeting me in a public place (I'm so sure I look that intimidating- NOT!), then they shouldn't accept. If they do miss the date and are genuinely sorry, I have no problem forgiving them. It's the ones who say "Oh, I'll be at X place at Y time on Z day," and when you get there, you find yourself waiting for 2 hours for someone who didn't have the courtesy to cancel, and can't be bothered to answer any emails or calls after the fact to explain. THAT ticks me off. Or, they give you their number and say, "Call me anytime" but NEVER answer their phone so you are stuck talking to some dumb machine 2 or 3 times, and never call back!


eastash 63M
2 posts
1/1/2006 4:35 pm

I haven't been active on this site for a while. I do answer my phone, return messages and keep what few (lol) appointments that I have. It's not really that difficult.


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