Our first time...  

sexywacouple 49M/43F
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5/3/2006 9:31 am

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6/5/2006 9:49 pm

Our first time...

So many people have been asking about our first time. I thought that maybe by postiing it here I wouldn't have to type it so many times!


We were getting ready to leave for Europe and my husband had purchased this alternative guidebook he found in the New York Times magazine. Towards the back there was a whole section on sex...clubs, hourly hotels (a big deal in some countries), strip bars, brothels, etc. It was kind of sexy to read the experiences of the girl that wrote the chapter. It became somewhat of a joke as to whether or not I would have the courage to actually go to one of these places. Needless to say I did.
We took a taxi to the unmarked door, rang the bell and walked inside. It looked like a fairly normal bar to tell the truth. (Except for the porn instead of sports on the TV!) The very friendly manager offered us a tour and off we went. Bar on the first floor, a couples sitting area, a glory hole wall. But no real action...just a cute couple sitting at the bar...it was a Tuesday after all. Downstairs we went. A hot tub, locker rooms, the group "must get permission to touch" room, and the group "anything goes, no permission needed" room (one couple), and a nice sitting area with lots of TVs. We went back upstairs and had a drink. Husband wanted to leave as there was not much going on but I wanted to stay, because after thousands of miles of suggesting that I might chicken out, there was no way I was chickening out! But, also, more importantly, because I was incredibly turned on. So we did. Stay that is!
After a cocktail we got our locker key and headed back downstairs. We stripped naked and climbed into the hot tub. It actually felt really good as we had been driving for the past two weeks. A few minutes later the couple from upstairs appeared and got into the tub. They were not just cute but pretty damn hot!
They began making out and we followed suit. Being conditioned to look away, we wouldn't make eye contact or even really look at them. So there we are, two naked couples making out on opposite ends of the hot tub. I had my eyes closed and was sitting on top of hubby with my back to the center. Suddenly there seemed to be a few too many hands on my breasts... Then a mouth on my neck. Then more hands. Then the hands found their way down below the water. All of this was happening behind me and it was thrilling. Before I knew it we were all groping at each other and fondling and kissing and....
After a while we climbed out of the tub and headed for the couches. Ordered another drink. Cute couple walked past us, smiled and headed for the group area.
This is where it falls apart.
They had chosen a bed in the "must ask permission" area. Being totally new to this, we chose a bed in the "no questions asked" area hoping they would follow us. We didn't realize that permission had already been given in the hot tub and they were waiting for us to join them!!! We still feel horrible about how it must have seemed to them - us going over to a different bed and ignoring them - darn that language barrier! Alas, by the time we figured this all out they had found a new couple and were heavily involved in their new found friends.
We had a great time anyway and certainly learned our lesson...never pass up an opportunity like that again! (And if that hot couple is reading this - please e-mail us!)

twoplayfulcats 50M/50F
1 post
5/4/2006 7:59 pm

What a great adventure! Thank you for sharing. You really are a brave and adventurous one. I really envy you...
I can feel the disappointment, the sense of a lost chance...
There will be more in the future!

rm_coastxoxo 43M/43F

5/10/2006 10:53 am

That's a fantastic story.
Don't worry, we've had similar episodes in the past as well.
Sometimes the potential good times just slip by you
Sounds like an awesome experience over in Europe for sure.

feeltheheat36d 36F
5 posts
5/31/2006 7:27 pm

What is the name of that guidebook? I go to Stockholm fairly often and I have heard there are clubs there, but I don't know how to find them. Does your guidebook have listings there? Thanks!

sexywacouple 49M/43F

6/1/2006 8:49 am

Sorry, the guidebook is just for Barcelona. Try looking on the Swingers Board.

rm_WetInWa6969 59M/47F
2 posts
6/5/2006 10:09 am

Great story, our first time exploring was interesting and our first time swinging was exciting as well. I hope your future partners give you two a sensual and exciting time. With of course, a sure sign of permission.

M & M

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