Do all men want it both ways  

sexythang269 48F
39 posts
12/23/2005 8:14 am

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Do all men want it both ways

I get email all the time from men saying please just reply. I reply say I am not interested and they respond back calling me a bitch, whore or worse, and then block me! Am I supposed to ignore them or just fuck every guy who bothers to send me an email? Right now I am going to choose to ignore every guy who I am not interested in and if you dont like it too fucking bad.

fmills 49M  
3 posts
12/23/2005 9:21 am

There are guys, in this world, who think that they are entitled. You should do what is best for you and only you. If that meens ignoring those men the so be it.

trustno01 55M  
2364 posts
12/23/2005 9:26 am

I would go with just ignoring them. I have been here a little over a year. I send messages that don't get answered. I don't take it personally. I just figure they are not interested. But I have read many women bloggers who have had the same experience as you describe. Some guys on here just don't have any manners and if they don't have them on here imagine what they are like in person.

As a former PA resident (born and raised) hope that helps.

funtoplay1973 44M
69 posts
12/23/2005 9:29 am

LMAO! A couple of points while I chuckle...

1) There are about 10 of us for every woman on here

2) You are HOT!

3) Your profile is HOT!

You are going to get lots of mail. And, just so you know, as a compliment... Spending all night with you, mmmmmm, tasty. (none of this 30 seconds crap) At any rate, being 3,000 miles away, all I can say is, this Santa would be happy to put a smile on your face... Just can't find the keys to the sleigh...

And yep, ignore the hell out of the ones you aren't interested in! There are plenty more...

Merry Christmas!

4_Latin_pleasure 43M
1 post
12/23/2005 9:30 am

Unfortunately, there are men who are students and some may even be professors at AHU (Asshole University). Furthermore, any guy who resorts to insults because he can't get any of your time, is probably not worthy of it to begin with. Just do what I and feel sorry for them...Or ignore them if it is working so far. until then stay sexy

Just4Fun6003 45M

12/23/2005 9:34 am

Ignoring them is probably best, or blocking them from sending you anymore emails, if that doesnt work just let me know and I will kick their ass for ya sexy!

kyplowboy22 61M

12/23/2005 9:45 am

Welcome to Blogland. Hope you fare well here. We are not all assholes. Would just like to invite you for a visit to my blog. I try to post a variety of things, so stop on by, you are welcome anytime. Later


hardstick71 46M
3 posts
12/23/2005 10:25 am

(Spoken with John Wayne accent) Well howdy there little lady (I swagger) what seems to be the trouble? what th, which one, you just point him out & I'll go over & teach him some manners on how to talk to a lady, (tips my hat) punch , pow! (tosses him out the saloon window, takes off hat, beats it on side of leg) there ya go miss he won't be bother-in you any more.(end) Heck there's just one of you he can't expect to get all his mail responded to, you were doing him a favor. You go girl!

Brock5132 35M
5 posts
12/23/2005 11:11 am

Those are the guys who can never get any women. They can't figure out why they can't get any women. They don't understand how a women think and feel. Women are totally opposite of men. You can't control if a women likes you or not. You can't change it. Either she likes you or she doesn't. Men are attracted to any women. Women are not like that. So I am going to tell you to ignore them if you are not intrested I know I do it to women if I am not intrested.

rm_inquiz6 45M

12/23/2005 5:45 pm

Sorry to hear about your dilemma. I'd actually prefer someone sending me a notice (politely) that they weren't interested. Wouldn't bother me, it would actually be helpful rather than never hearing from someone again & wondering what's going on. And any guy who can't move on without becoming a bona-fide asshat wouldn't have been worth your time.
Ignore the rabble. They are a shameful minority!

bullit6690 54M
179 posts
12/24/2005 6:36 am

Just ignore and move on, change your reply, best of all just be yourself. U have tto make the decision of who u want. Just have a nice day and don't worry about it.

rm_flyin97el 49M

12/26/2005 1:18 pm

I sent you a follow-up message before I read this blog. Be assured that I agrre with the posts here and am not trying to hassle you. Ignore the ignorant ones, there are way too many nice people to be had. And this is all about sexual satisfaction anyway, and who could be satisfied will an asshole!!! NOT ME!

kellynj32 48M/48F  
1 post
12/27/2005 5:54 pm

Well Sexy,
You are completely right!!! You do not have to take such abuse on this site and there are only so many people that you can block. I really can't stand when men Im me looking to be with me and my b/f. I am only interested in a girl and the guys are telling me how great it is to be with to men. I beg to differ. You can not make someone like something that they are not interested in. I am only interested in meeting girls for my enjoyment. I have alway had the urge and now I am with the right guy, who will get into whatever relationship I choose to. I do not choose to be with other men and often have to block them or ignore them.........I am glad you spoke your mind and this is the first time I did on this site........KELLY

rm_buddy152 55M

12/27/2005 6:53 pm

Oh Well,Look at it this way. They will get over it or they will choke on it and die. Nobody lives forever. (With that attitude anyway) So ignore them.By the way, you are very hot! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!!!!!

rm_veganthor 42M

1/1/2006 10:51 am

Frankly, in my experience, men are idiots. We can't take a hint and we can't take a joke, that's all there is to it. Just have to keep slogging, I guess, and find a way to ignore the dumb ones.

recon218 49M

1/5/2006 12:55 pm

You need not say any more! they do not like it, too bad fuck it.

danwaltersfourty 53M

1/23/2006 3:47 pm

Hey, I can think of three ways I want it with you. Interested in any of them?

redwing1959 51M

1/24/2006 9:47 pm

Don't let it bother you sweetie. Just keep being who you are.

Slowman65 51M

3/6/2006 11:18 am

disappointing to have men who treat you that way. As usual, the few ruin it for the many. Hope you don't let it get you down.

rm_Mr_justright 105M

3/6/2006 11:40 am

I am pretty new and have noticed that most emails don't get answered. At first I did not think the emails were even going through and then realized that they were. I don't believe in being rude at all. But since I have read a few blogs I see now why women don't respond half the time. There are so many asshole guys out there that if I were a women I would not know (and how can u) how to trust. So heres a tip: If the opening statement is not rude and the same person doesn't try to send you 50 emails then chances are he is respectful to the fact that you did not reply, That guy may just be the one that is nice.

I now understand why it is so hard to find a women to hook up with.

Thanks all you guys who are assholes and fucking jerkoffs.

I am so glad I shared. PS My anti spammer number for this blog is 911 - is that bad or good carma ?

Heartnsoul768 53M
360 posts
3/23/2006 11:16 am

The best part about this site is that you can do as you please .... Feel free to ignore the assholes

hdflsts2002 56M
97 posts
8/10/2006 3:38 pm

Hun, we're not all bad, but there certainly are bad ones out there and unfortunately for the rest of us they make us all look bad. Just like most things in life you tend to remember the bad things quite clearly and so you remeber the assholes as if that's all there are. It's up to you how you deal with this. Either don't reply at all if not interested and be done with it or send out the little thanks but no thanks note and when an asshole does reply don't let it get to you. Myself I would probably go with the no reply option just because if they are going to be an ass, they are going to be an ass, wether you reply or not. Just try not to let your opinion of men in general be jaded by those bad apples, there really are some of us that can take a hint. In the meantime here's hope that in the future you are limited to one ass, the one the good lord gave you.

DovesYellsLoves 58M
469 posts
8/17/2006 9:35 am

Unfortunately, there are people on here that think they are gods gift to women. Yu have to do what is best for you and ONLY you. It was nice to respond back to them if you were not interested but as you have seen, i am afraid that you cannot be nice to some on this site. I wish you the best of luck in your searching, have fun and be careful.

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