A sad day which should have been an happy one  

sexymom20069 48F
631 posts
7/9/2006 10:12 pm

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7/13/2006 9:19 am

A sad day which should have been an happy one

Most whom read my blog know I am a grandma at 37. But , I have yet got to see and hold my grandson in person cuz my youngest daughter either hates me or her so-called hubby brain washed her. Stranger things have happened :
Well my Uncle's daughter had a little girl 1 or 2 weeks before my daughter. And today I got to hold my little 2nd cousin. My uncle is like 10 yrs older then me. He got to see and hold his granddaughter the day she was born.

Anyways tonight I got to hold her and feed her. Even rocked her to sleep. My mom saw me and said I was a natural - too bad I have yet seen or held my little grandson
Doing this made me think back to 17 yrs ago from today. When my youngest was just 4 days old. My cousin's baby weighed only 7 lbs when she was born and she is 8 lbs today. My grandson weighed 7 lbs 8 ozs while my daughter weighed 7 lbs 4 oz. She was also a tiny baby - My other 2 kids weighed 8 lbs 3 1/2 ozs which was my son and my oldest daughter weighed 8 lbs 5 ozs - so having a 7lb 4ozs baby was something totally different.

If only I could see my grandson 1 time , then I could die the happiest woman in the world and I wouldn't need any other thing to make me happy.
Anyways , just some thoughts to share..


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/9/2006 11:05 pm

I sincerely hope that you DO get to see your grandson.It's only natural!

Please try to have a talk with your daughter,& just explain how all this is hurting you.Don't try to push it,but just try reason with her.

Whatever you do,please just keep it between the two of you.Don't let outside influences dictate what goes on.

I'm sure that there is still a bond between you & your Daughter,it's just that it has got clouded by things that have happened recently.

Try to clear those clouds,by first of all telling her that you love her & that you will stand by her no matter what.Then perhaps she will begin to come around.

I don;t know the in's & out's of what has been going on,but i hope that this little piece of advice helps you.

Don't forget that you have made a friend here in me,appart from some others.Don't be afraid to chat with any of us again,anytime.I for one would be glad to help any way i can,in giving you support.

Good luck,& i hope it turns out well.

Hugs, & more hugs,


"Always remember...keep smiling!"



sexymom20069 48F

7/10/2006 12:36 am

THX "D" - It's over some BS that her so-called new husband told her - main one was "Your parents don't love you if they don't buy you expensive things". Now ain't that some shit ???

I have seen a picture of him that my Uncle took for me and my parents whom are "great" grandparents now and they cant see him cuz they didn't have the money to give my daughter to buy her pre-natal vitamins one time. Its all about money with her now..

And she may be a little afraid that I will try to take over raising her baby - I wont do that , never intended or even thought about doing anything like that - I only want to love her and my grandson - be there if and when she needs me..


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