A new week starting - a few thoughts before I step out for a few  

sexymom20069 48F
631 posts
5/22/2006 12:01 pm
A new week starting - a few thoughts before I step out for a few

I wonder if I gave the right advice to a married man today. He emailed me asking about getting a Mistress since like most married men on this site he isnt getting the passion or sex with his wife.
I say if you truly love your wife then NO. Stick it out , deal with it after all you married her for better or worse and how can it get any worse then no passion or sex ?
OR if there is doubt about still loving her - do a trial separation.
In the long run of my marriage , I honesty can tell you , I really didnt love my husband of 18 yrs and I was only with him cuz I thought it was a cool thing to be with an older man back in 1985. To this day , I regret my marriage and staying so long with him - missed out on a lot of living. I cared about him and still do but that isnt enough to stay with a person you dont love or fallen out of love with.
I left my ex 3 times only to go back to him cuz of the kids and he wouldnt let go of me and so he could support me cuz I had no high school diploma. I am fighting hard today to get my GED and tried so many times with him before to get it but he was afraid if I did , I would leave him.
So , NOW I AM TRYING TO MAKE UP FOR IT.
I want to meet ONE good man , one to get to know on a personal basis , grow to love each other day by day. To experince new things in life - try crab , lobster and sucba diving , skiing. Little things that dont matter to some , matter most to us whom never done anything like that before.
Ok, bored ya enough for now.
TAKE CARE - ALL MY BEST AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL, Linda
HAVE A GREAT WEEK AHEAD


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