lies...  

sexymamma662003 31F
3954 posts
7/16/2006 12:29 pm

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7/19/2006 8:15 pm

lies...


what do you do when you can no longer extinguish the lies from the truth?

do friends lie for other friends to cover there ass's? or do they lie when they are hurt and just lash out?

what do you do when you are hearing 3 diffrent views of what is happening? do you go with your friends view? go against the person you are pissed off at? or do you look at the facts and go with what your gut tells you?

i for one look at the fact, couse you know as they say actions speak louder then words. when the facts tell me that someone is lieing threw there teeth and are just fucking playing everyone. i tend to believe that way ahead of them or even my friends.

friends are not supposed to lie to you or talk shit behind your back. so what do you all do when someone who claims to have been your friends lies?

friends are not supposed to try and minipulate your opinons. they are supposed to talk to you if something is wrong, if they feel that maybe somehow you wronged them they should talk to you about it before running and stabbing you in the back

friends dont lash out at each other becouse they are upset at someone else. a friend talks to there friends and gets support from them not push them away and break friendships up becouse of it.

so to everyone who reads this, dont turn your backs on friends before getting the facts. and dont ever assume anything about your friends.

just so everyone knows no i didnt hurt a friend i was hurt by some one who said they were my friend.

~sexy~


runzwithknives 59F

7/16/2006 2:30 pm

Sexy, don't let your anger consume you. Miscommunication and preconceived notions are everything (there are three sides to every story. His/Hers, yours, and the truth). Walk away from it and take a break-at least for now. Hugs, Rosa


phoenix639 49F

7/16/2006 2:52 pm

Im finding out who my friends are on here.

Its quite hurtful actually.


rm_abutoo2 44M
1078 posts
7/16/2006 4:50 pm

I would have to say that we attract the people around us. So maybe I have to look at myself if I don't like my friends. and then I have to ask myself: Do I like anyone today? Is this a type of relationship I really want to have? Do I really like the person I'm with or do I just like having a person to be with? But the bottom line for me is, I focus on myself and my actions.


phoenix639 49F

7/17/2006 10:59 am

    Quoting rm_abutoo2:
    I would have to say that we attract the people around us. So maybe I have to look at myself if I don't like my friends. and then I have to ask myself: Do I like anyone today? Is this a type of relationship I really want to have? Do I really like the person I'm with or do I just like having a person to be with? But the bottom line for me is, I focus on myself and my actions.
I like your thinking & your attitude hun.


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