***The perfect age***  

sexylady6820052 48F
15 posts
11/14/2005 6:24 pm

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***The perfect age***

Well it's time for a new blogg....feels like ages since I posted one,lol...been busy with work....I haven't been looking on this site for some time also...can you believe it???...no time to get laid,ha ha...well to think of...getting laid...I wonder sometimes why I have an age preference on my profile...because I noticed that mostly men between the age of 35 and 45 don't want to commit to nothing....not even to a date at the damn Ice cream Bus that trails around my neighbor hood middle in the night selling Popsicles...Maybe it's the melody the play out of that van...or maybe it's because they don't sell that batman ice cream that they dreamed about their whole life....most men I encountered that age .....are afraid of EVERYTHING...I am not talking about this website only...also men I meet outside the cyber world....or guys my friends date....I understand that you got hurt as hell by your ex....and that you don't want to go thru something like that ever again...I feel the same way...and they never want to be in something serious ever again.....but why???....like Forest Gump always says:..."shit happens"...I had to learn that the hard way....nothing in life that happens to you will be controllable....there is NOTHING you can do about it .....all you can do is learn how to deal with it as best you can....a very good friend told me that...(I love him to death....and off course he FREAKED when I told him...I liked him THAT much)...but why not give someone else a chance...it's not my fault that your ex was the worst that ever happened to you....why go thru life all by your self???...because your afraid you get hurt again???....unfortunately thats part of life....why push something away that could make such a perfect addition to your life...why freak out if the woman you have sex with a few times...hugs you tells you "your just awesome.I just love you"...that doesn't mean we want to get married...or want to move in with you....(we would probably argue anyways over the toilet seat)...we just want to let you know how we feel about you....is that so terrible???...I know this is a sex site...people just want to have sex here....but can you see your self in 10 years from now ....still posting pics of your wrinkled privates...trying to get laid???....why not start today...adding someone terrific to your life...just do a little commitment to a great person....as for me I was just wondering why men/women punish great people who try to be a small part of their life.....


mm6342 53M
199 posts
11/14/2005 6:59 pm

wow that is an amazing post , well said . I my self have fallen into that trap, while never being married as I do get older I am at times thinking it may never happen. This past weekend I met a lady four years older than me at my usual hang-out.The usual small talk as always is , she seemed shocked that at 42 yrs old I was never married. Soon after,she said I was set in my way`s ? .whatever that means , I told her no I am just holding out for the right one and am Happy in my world . I told her I wanted to buy her dinner ,she took my number now the age old question which can create so many more responses is will she call ? .


rm_wesstump 54M

11/30/2005 9:32 pm

i am married to a wonderful woman. but i met a young lady and i ended up falling head over heels for her. i didn't leave my wife for her. not out of fear but, the young lady and i had live's to live and i would never ask a woman to give up her own life for me. not again.


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