You Can Have Her Soul......  

sexyeyes375 47F
611 posts
5/21/2006 10:57 am

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5/25/2006 2:52 pm

You Can Have Her Soul......

Know her mind and you can have her body, know her heart and you have her soul.

...'you can have her body'- meaning, she will give you all of her body. Knowing her heart will give you access to her soul. I do not think this happens very often, even in the most loving of relationships. I also do not think that it is a choice one makes, to let someone have access to you on such a level. It is involuntary, the submission. There are people that you meet with whom you do not have boundaries.. .there are no lines.

hmm.. I have more thoughts, but would like to know yours...

black and purple, coincidence?

8328 posts
5/21/2006 11:44 am

I think you are spot-on with your assessment.

I believe most of this is the connection you have with the person on a mental level which is communicative in nature.

From there the intimacy and trust emanates.

Yes, the submission is involuntary, it is implicit between the two people.

I do not think most people have this tight of a bond in their relationship and wouldn't have anything as a means of comparison anyway.

I think it's rare to find someone on the same wavelength.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
5/21/2006 5:51 pm

a beam of sunlight suddenly coming through the window?...

VenusDiaries 62M
867 posts
5/21/2006 7:39 pm

I am only interested in your soul and I am leaving post haste,

mrgrimshade 44M

5/22/2006 3:15 pm

hmmm purple and black...if only it was only black...a deeper shade of grimness....Your Body...YES....your heart and soul...Yes, so I can open those damn "soul activated" motion doors(think simpsons)


sexyeyes375 47F

5/22/2006 3:55 pm

dusty~ I will visit and ponder..

div~ I am not so sure they are even on the same wavelength (meaning similar?).. it is that they just 'know' you. Not the details that eventually mean nothing, but the things that you need. There is an invisible bond that is there from the beginning. You can have it with a significant other, but it can happen with a friend as well.

toothy~ the weather is nice today. sunny. I know this was not what you were referring to...could be a number of things. My mind races, you know, fills in the gaps. So the weather is what I settled on to reply with. Me, being my usual polite, congenial, courteous self. Albeit, with a titch of sarcasm, because I do it so well.. and I needed to hit it back in your court???? just kidding

venusd~ .. chicken.. lol

grim~ hmm... I do not watch much TV. *gasp* Although, when I had a family and a life, I did enjoy the simpsons. Feel free to explain the episode. I like that kind of random thing...

charismasix 44M

5/22/2006 9:06 pm

You are a very intriguing woman. I enjoy the way you think. Such a desire to explore, and learn. To share, your thoughts, ideas. You have such energy, and passion.

I also love the photo of the back of your neck. Its fun to think about kissing your neck. Smelling the scent of your hair, feeling that shiver of anticipation. "Ummm!" You say as you lean back into my lap. "Oh, someones happy to see me." you purr.

"Sexyeyes, your body is so amazing."

You turn your head looking right into my eyes "Really?" you smile
breathing harder, you bite my lip. That blast of energy, shocking your senses.

You can feel it, a euphoria, like being a little drunk, letting go now, that pleasure, like waves of of energy.

Its nice to think about all those images, all those nice ideas, you have, and like to talk about, and think about, now, and again.

im_curious_4u 50M

5/22/2006 9:33 pm

The giving of one's heart and soul happens more than you think. For some it comes very easy and others, ahem it comes harder. I do agree it isn't a choice one makes, it's either there or it isn't. The same goes for being on the same wavelength. It's a great feeling to have that connection with someone.

GuyWhoListens2u 56M
325 posts
5/23/2006 6:44 am

I think for what you desire to work both must be givers at heart. By “givers” I mean people who get a thrill from pleasing the other person. Now from what I have seen true givers are rare, so finding another like yourself will require patients.

I agree that the desire to share everything with someone is part of the core of a person. If a person has a heart like that, there is nothing they can do to change it. Even in a bad relationship, they still seem to need to be what they are. Along that same line, it seems they are the ones that get taken advantage of so often.

Purple is passion… black is… um… I guess I don’t know.
why the mix of purple and black?

sexyeyes375 47F

5/23/2006 6:19 pm

charis~ I thank you for your very gracious thoughts and comments.

ic~.. tapping my foot, with my arms crossed and my eyebrow raised.. are you insinuating that I am 'others'??

guy~ while I love the sentiment of your comment, I do not know if I fit the profile. First of all, putting me and the word patience in the same sentence is asking for trouble, or at least a full blown belly laugh. Second of all, to be a true giver would be someone that gives to everyone, yes? without thought of themselves? and I do not see this as me. Mother Teresa I am not. I can be a very generous giver in a few areas.. some exemplary... but other areas and other people perhaps lacking. And lastly, it is not easy for me to share myself in that way.. to trust on that level, but I am learning.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
5/23/2006 6:50 pm

I think you are write. Of course sometimes we deceive ourselves
because of our own needs. Then we think there are no boundaries
because we wish there were none. It is still wonderful though
when the boudaries just drop by themselves and one can merge
into another's mind, body and life.

interested13563 53M
2557 posts
5/23/2006 6:51 pm

And sorry about the spelling error: I meant you are "right".

im_curious_4u 50M

5/23/2006 9:15 pm

No Sexy you are not an others. You are a unique special lady. One I'll always wish I could have gotten to know.

BTW stop using my smiley guy. LOL

sexyeyes375 47F

5/24/2006 3:18 pm

interested~ good point. I do not have much experience 'merging' in this sense, but I would venture to guess that you are supposed to let these things happen. Although there are always exceptions, are there not?

ic~ your overuse of the smileys is well documented. back away from the keyboard and let the 'others' have a turn. lol Unique, one of those words they use to describe, 'others' roflmao

Ok. putting this subject to bed.

GuyWhoListens2u 56M
325 posts
5/25/2006 12:07 pm


Yes, I think you are right to a certain extent.. a true giver would be motivated to give to all, but they eventually learn that it is impossible. They make adjustments to protect themselves.

Waiting for someone you can trust and open your self totally to is very wise. And here you said you have trouble with patients...

mrgrimshade 44M

5/25/2006 1:08 pm

*sighs* I guess I just have to steal you some weekend and make your watch simpsons....ANYWAY Bart sells his soul to Milhouse (for a $1?) but after that Bart keeps running into the automatic doors, because they really sense souls not motion. So in my everyday life, I am always walking too damn fast for the "auto" doors and my soul does not always set them off ...whew...what a reply


OhLukkyMan 59M

6/13/2006 7:06 am

This insight is, I think, one that is only learned from experience. Or from reading too many romance novels Are congratulations in order? Or a librarian?


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