Am I assuming too much?  

sexy_andee 39F
22 posts
12/4/2005 3:10 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Am I assuming too much?

Hello all how are you today?
I made a connection with a great guy last month. Met online thru email, sent those back and forth for a week, then we met in person, got along great, very attractive, polite and friendly.
Have seen him a few more times, had even been texting each other regularily, well everyday, as of friday night, I haven't heard from him. Now I don't know if im being presumptuos in assuming since we kept in contact everyday, that 3 days with no messages means he has no more interest in me, i'm taking it as a message from him that he isn't interested, but doesn't want to hurt my feelings etc by saying as much. But i can't text him and say, "ok, I get the point, had fun getting to know you all the best have a nice day ". I don't want him assuming he would be devastating me if he dumped me so to speak, i'm a big girl, I can handle it.
To all those in a similar situation, just be upfront no point being quiet about how you feel or your intentions as you'll only lead yourself into a situation you don't enjoy being in.
Have a great day all and I hope you have fun making mew connections

Bye Andee xx


HughJarse2000 47M

12/12/2005 4:25 am

Hey Andee

Most folk don't seem to be honest enough with themselves to be honest enough with someone else. He probably doesn't know what he thinks.

I'd brush it away and not worry.

It's quite an art - honesty with sensitivity. And honestly (hee hee) I'm still mastering it myself.

Did you know that you are one of a very small number of NSW female bloggers. Keep writing and you might one day get to that social group. Of course it will be 50 guys and 2 girls. Not so much fun for ya fella.

Hugh


maidensmeadows 66F
14 posts
12/16/2005 2:33 pm

andee
i find the same thing here they get all hot over us and then wham we start to wonder where they have gone
some times i think they is not so sure what is going to happen next so just back off
then months down the track they is back again on the texting
or even emailing with not a word of inbetween times
but i am having fun down here anyway
sharon


PoenaCubitInfra 45M

1/1/2006 2:55 pm

My suggestion would be forget about him!More u think about him then he will get more meaning.Look for your match he belongs to past.


snowy562 60

1/11/2006 6:58 pm

AYE, OBVIOUSLY CONFUSED OR GUTLESS BUT, IT COULD BE WORSE HE COULD BE TEXTING OR EMAILING CONSTANTLY.THERES ONLY ONE LOSER HERE AND DARLIN IT AINT YOU


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