I am so done  

sexxyricanchick 40F
29 posts
1/17/2006 5:53 am

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6/3/2006 3:13 pm

I am so done


Ya know what I hate,I hate stupid-ass men who take good women for granted....Im tired of the lies,tired of the games, tired of all the b.s.--I have been such a good woman and to get played by another damn man---when does it end!!!!!So that tells me there are no good men,---zero!!!!!I am on the verge to completely shutting men down,u guys suck is there one good PERSON who is willing to be mine, all mine, I hate to share and this is gettin old....where r my sexxy ladies at.....Shari?I need some help, can anybody offer a cure.

Rockhard2x6 54M

1/17/2006 7:01 am

Hate to tell you this, but the feeling goes both ways.


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/17/2006 7:46 am

I hear ya. I feel the same way about females often enough. I'm tired of getting burned, so da heck with it.

Blog On!


gmoney6200 55M
1 post
1/17/2006 3:08 pm

Don't despair sexy; remember "to thine own self be true". I've been burned, but REFUSE to let bad experience shape who I am. Hang in there.


Mulato181973 42M

1/17/2006 10:52 pm

mami, con ese cuerpo,si se puso a jugar contigo maricon seria. Dont give up yet. And by what I see I know I'm willing tu be all yours. Todito tuya


latinluvallnite 38M

1/18/2006 5:10 pm

I tried to get with you but you shut me down. I am willing to be all yours though.


rm_zooboi1 35M
7 posts
1/21/2006 7:12 am

Babygirl,

Keep your faith the person you want is probably looking for you also. Just work on yourself and making you happy. Nothing is promised but one thing is life and death. So in the mean time in between time focus on you and getting yourself right so when he/she does come along you will be ready.

p.s. if that doesn't work then holla at me (lol) Just playin

Be Safe God Bless You


rm_jimis2kol 50M/44F

1/23/2006 5:26 am

Always remember if you want someone to be true to you, then you have to be true to them also. I've been with my wife for 15 years and have always been true and plan to stay that way as long as she will have me. There are some good men and women out there, they are just hard to fine. Sometimes you may have a good one and not know it if you really don't want it.


slim3301979 37M
15 posts
1/28/2006 8:32 pm

who ever he was he's a damn fool


sososexy000 45M
1 post
2/12/2006 7:20 pm

Two words baby...."FRIENDS FIRST".Try getting someone that's more concerned with just enjoying your company....not your body.Stay sweet.


rm_white918 37M

2/16/2006 2:42 pm

Sexxyricanchick: This is just my own personal opinion. You evidently have not had the right man. If you were mine, you wouldn't have to turn to anybody for nothing. You would loose your taste for women. This world in today's society needs a big national/ international televised workshop on Love & Relationships. What we all are lacking is true love. This is just not a mans' or woman's' thing. Wives cheat on their husbands just like husbands cheat on wives. But there's a reason for this; there's something wrong somewhere. For one thing: men should love and cherish their wives. Wives should do the same. This is for a relationship of any kind. Women like like to be told that they are beautiful, men like to be encouraged. Men sometimes date women because of their nice fine figures and they don't realize that it's going to fade away some day or that anything drastic could happen that will change all of that. So, we end up just knowing the women's body and not her heart. Women like great conversation, like to be caressed, to be held, romanced, complimented, etc.... But instead, us men sometimes do the opposite for example; "you burned the bacon", "you're getting fat", "I'm to tired to have sex" and so on. So, the woman ends up wounded. She then after a while starts to feel undesirable. That's when other things starts to happen. Women, it's the same for men. Ya'll critisise us; "you are good for nothing", you tell your girlfriends how good your man is in bed, etc........ After a while your girlfriend is going to want a piece of the hot pie. So, I could go on and on with this, but I've siad enough. I hope that I was able to help someone. This is once again just my own personal opinion.


rm_white918 37M

2/16/2006 2:42 pm

Sexxyricanchick: This is just my own personal opinion. You evidently have not had the right man. If you were mine, you wouldn't have to turn to anybody for nothing. You would loose your taste for women. This world in today's society needs a big national/ international televised workshop on Love & Relationships. What we all are lacking is true love. This is just not a mans' or woman's' thing. Wives cheat on their husbands just like husbands cheat on wives. But there's a reason for this; there's something wrong somewhere. For one thing: men should love and cherish their wives. Wives should do the same. This is for a relationship of any kind. Women like like to be told that they are beautiful, men like to be encouraged. Men sometimes date women because of their nice fine figures and they don't realize that it's going to fade away some day or that anything drastic could happen that will change all of that. So, we end up just knowing the women's body and not her heart. Women like great conversation, like to be caressed, to be held, romanced, complimented, etc.... But instead, us men sometimes do the opposite for example; "you burned the bacon", "you're getting fat", "I'm to tired to have sex" and so on. So, the woman ends up wounded. She then after a while starts to feel undesirable. That's when other things starts to happen. Women, it's the same for men. Y'all criticize us; "you are good for nothing", you tell your girlfriends how good your man is in bed, etc........ After a while your girlfriend is going to want a piece of the hot pie. So, I could go on and on with this, but I've said enough. I hope that I was able to help someone. This is once again just my own personal opinion.


rm_white918 37M

2/16/2006 2:45 pm

true


WorstChainEaser 36F

2/26/2006 10:27 pm

HEY MA" MY THING IS WITH THE 2 GUYS IN MY LIFE ITS LIKE, I SHOW THEM LOVE BUT I DO NOT LET THE PENETRATE MY HEART JUST MY PUSSY YOU KNOW...F*** THESE GUYS! GET YOURS AND LET THEM DO THE MATH (M) I NUTURE MY MAN BUT NOW IT SEEMS LIKE HE THINKS I AM SUPPOSED 2 BE HIS MOMMA! HATS UP WITH THESE GUYS... SO I KEEP 1 AND I ON THE SIDE AND CALL IT A DAY U CAN NOT GO WRONG WIT THAT! ANYWAYS U KNOW HOW 2 REACH ME!


fun4once 46M
3 posts
4/1/2006 3:24 pm

Hey Sexyrican, I am not like the guys you wrote about...I know how to treat a true Lady. Message me and i'll send you a pic.


rm_mskiara 32F
1 post
4/11/2006 9:53 am

I definitely have been there before. So I can understand fully what feels like to be that other woman or to find out there are other women. Not a good feeling! I find whenever I stay focused on myself and my goals I dont even have the time to think about men. So thats what I do. In the mean time if you need my service Im hear for you.


tlj2k 56M

4/15/2006 9:55 am

I understand how you feel...it happens with men as well....like you I'm from New York (Brooklyn Baby--Bed Stuy, do or die!) and here in Georgia, women want a man, but they don't know how to treat them or keep them....some of them would not be on this site if they weren't playin' games to begin with (not saying that you're one of them!). But, based on what you're saying, I can agree with white918...if I had you, first off you wouldn't have to worry about that shit....both of us coming form the Apple know what the deal is....and you would be treated like the queen you are....anytime you wish to talk, hit me back!


CAtoVegas2010 38M
2 posts
6/25/2006 10:50 pm

Maybe it's time to just live in the moment and let life flow naturally to where it's supposed to go. I believe people come in and out of your life at the perfect time, and no matter how much we want (or don't want) something to happen, life will do what it does.

I think we've all been lied to, cheated on, and taken for granted at some point in our lives. Although everyday is another day to meet new people and open yourself up to finding good people to add to your life. That's why it's so important to not have all these restrictions and preconceived notions about who you'll allow into your life. I would hate to be that next man in your life (even though you are an extremely beautiful woman), because it seems like you're already waiting for him to lie, cheat, etc. That's no way to go into a relationship with anyone. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Why don't you enjoy each moment, live life by your rules, and let things flow where they may. Never rule out anyone (man or woman), and start everything off as friends only. That way you'll be able to see their true colors before you get too attached on an emotional/physical level.

I wish you the best of luck, and being that you are extremely gorgeous, I'm sure you'll find someone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.


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