One in, One out  

sexpirate19125 51F
162 posts
1/15/2006 12:23 pm

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One in, One out

Having just had someone play fickle with me on AdultFriendFinder and disappear without a trace, I am not feeling so cute anymore. Actually, pretty fucking awful might be a better description.

Then, when you think the rain will never end and sunshine is lifetimes away - you get a little break to remind you that some things are still possible.

He had sent me an email months ago and I had dismissed the contact because he seemed too good looking to be real and I was not interested in more disappointments. Now, after what I thought was an electric connection with the one who just fell off the radar on me, a second email from too good looking boy in my mailbox was just the diversion I needed, so I called him.

Sweet, friendly, intelligent and nice. So far, so good. Will call him today after the football game to see about meeting for a chat.

He's 33. I am suspicious of his attraction to me but that won't stop me. Younger means adventurous and I really want someone who is willing to go have an adventure with me.

Koffla 60M
55042 posts
1/15/2006 12:50 pm

Hola sexpirate19125 ~ Good for you, sometimes is just a matter of being patient.

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rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
1/15/2006 1:14 pm

Good luck and be careful sweetie. There are a lot of frogs out here.

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TorontoGuy55 36M

1/15/2006 1:26 pm

I'm young, adventurous, and good-looking too - as are two thousand other local guys on this site...

If Prince Charming doesn't work out, perhaps the SexPirate can sail the high seas with Yours Truly.

sexpirate19125 51F

1/15/2006 3:39 pm

Thanks for the link Soy but that advisor doesn't have the mother I do who raised you to make partnering your primary focus in life and the only known method of self actualization for a woman (I have gotten past most of this thankfully but strains of regret at not having the woman skills or perhaps a greater sense of compromise (?!) to partner with someone permanently still eat at me. I am still half Asian, after all and Asian women don't live alone. The way I was raised is completely different from the American culture I was raised in.)

My mother who looks her long divorced and middle age angst ridden daughter in the eye and says in complete confidence, "How old are you now? 40? Tsk! If you haven't found anyone by now, you never will. May as well give up."

It is not enough that dating is more challenging after 40 but I have a cheerleading team that would keep a suicide hotline in business.

I don't know if I am secretly optimistic or just completely foolish but I continue fishing in all sorts of social ponds wanting to believe that there has to be someone who fits me... and in the meantime, I am fighting old age kicking and screaming by robbing as many cradles as I can and dancing my happy ass through the night as often as I can. Virtue, after all, is for women who want husbands and children. Vice, on the other hand, is for women who are built for more daring adventures - I am just getting really tired of returning from them alone.

ajg316 36M
24 posts
1/15/2006 8:35 pm

well m'lady take your time and never seem TOO eager ....think you told me that once lol

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
1/16/2006 8:17 am

Good luck, you are wise enough to know that you have to kiss a lot of different frogs... If you need someone to make you feel younger (I can remember 41) while you're between princes maybe I can help.

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