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sexkitten31304 30F
17 posts
5/25/2006 8:30 am

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Anal Sex

I've never had anal sex before but i would like to try it with one of my friends. I don't know how to start off though. How bad does it hurt at first? How do i get started?

vengeur 40M
836 posts
5/25/2006 9:40 am

Try starting with a toy, like a small butt plug, before you try a real live cock. Get some lubrication made specifically for anal sex, too. You should be able to get these things at an adult bookstore. These items are sold online also.

ShaneLiveLife 50M

5/25/2006 10:10 am

It doesn't need to be painful if you don't want it to !

A few suggestions:

- make sure that your body is relaxed (especially in the beginning - try lying on your side/have a long hot bath) !

- use a proper sex lubricant !

- take it slowly if you want less pain !

- explore yourself first with one or two fingers to get used to the feeling of something inside of you and play a little, relaxing and tensing

- if you feel confident let your partner play with you too using his fingers and a small vibrator to warm your pussy up and introduce it into you ass

- when you feel ready to accept something larger let him gently and slowly penetrate you (try to resist tensing because this will increase your discomfort)

- I suggest that if you have anal sex very regularly try not to push out/strain too often (even if you feel the urge) because this might eventually lead to problems (e.g. piles)

Enjoy ! - I hope this helps

Live with passion !

sexkitten31304 30F
4 posts
5/27/2006 6:41 pm

Thanks for the advice guys. xoxo

sexkitten31304 30F
4 posts
5/27/2006 6:42 pm

Thanks for the advice guys.

ShaneLiveLife 50M

5/27/2006 11:39 pm

You're welcome sexkitten

Live with passion !

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