Emotion in the world of Swinging....  

sensually_4ever 42M/F
349 posts
3/22/2006 7:16 am

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3/31/2006 6:50 am

Emotion in the world of Swinging....


Well.. I am an emotional gal...

I am very happily married and my husband and I decided to enter the world of swinging together... I chat a lot, and flirt of course.

And I have discovered at the local AdultFriendFinder Meet and greets that my chatting personality shines through.... But now.. I have had sex with other people than my husband.

The sex that I shared was very very good, but I have noticed a troubling thing arising, my developing feelings of attachment to the one whom I have slept with. He kept complimenting me.. and telling me that I am the one he wants first and foremost, and I discovered that I was getting possessive of him....

Bad bad bad me...

Fortunately my husband.. knows me better than any other, saw the signs and we sat down and talked about it. We decided that part of the issue was the way this male was always telling me things. He was doing it to give me confidence of course and nothing more, but I was starting to let it make me possessive.

Hubby had a talk with him and now all is good again.

But this leaves me thinking of course.

I thought that it was easy to divorce sex and love. and I am coming to realize that for some it is never really separate, especially when the one you sleep with, connects with you on all levels.

The danger inherent in this I have learned is that.. you have to talk to your other half, and let him know your feelings and together you can work them through. But maybe, there are those out there whose relationship isn't so strong??? then I say to you, deal with the strength first, or your relationship cannot survive swinging me thinks. I know if hubby and I weren't like this.. we would not survive swinging that's for damn sure.

Well enough babbling...lol.. I have worked this out in my mind now.. thanks for reading.... hmmm

*boobie flash and tease to those whom made it this far*

Sens,

as always

rm_bbw__fan 49M

3/22/2006 1:42 pm

yes, your personality shines thru.

but what shines thru even more than that is your love for your husband.

there are moments in your blog where you are anylitical enough about sex and love , and the differences between them , you could almost be a man.

mm, hope that comes across as the compliment its intended to be , instead of provoking a Venus vs Mars war.


nedthebundler 56M/59F

3/22/2006 4:18 pm

Sens,
There is always a danger in whatever we do. Yes, I believe it it easy to fall for someone that you've just had a very intimate and personal relationship with. We've been taught that sex and love are inseperable.

I believe the stats show couples that swing are usually more bonded simply because they are open with each other, and push aside the thoughts that the love and sex between them is the same as with others.

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!


LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
3/22/2006 9:42 pm

Hiya Gal!!!

My thoughts are ... for weak relationships .. it is usually deadly .... for good true relationships it can be a great plus when all is kept in perspective. Seems u got a great mate like i do .. and it will be a plus.

"Aunty" LilJessicaSQuirt ... lol


ilsgicemru 72M
2822 posts
3/24/2006 8:05 pm

.................... Hi Sens

You have just been tagged .. Sweetie !!

Now go to 6 Weird Things . Tag Game .. for more instructions on this game !!

Sorry Lil .. If I beat you to her !! .. Maybe we can divi her up between us !! Lol


sensually_4ever 42M/F

3/24/2006 9:24 pm

huh?? tagged???


sleeplessknight1 68M

3/25/2006 2:48 am

glad yu talked it over and got your fellings sorted out......
tc.....
miss yu in the group...

Sleepy


rm_jackie40503 70T
1323 posts
3/25/2006 12:01 pm

Please Standby for the Grand Opening of the

The Blog Tag Remedy Pavilion

Will open this afternoon


CarloSlapsMiens 62M/57F  
61 posts
3/29/2006 8:31 pm

Sens, you are one of the truly great people in this world.


sensually_4ever 42M/F

3/30/2006 7:24 am

aww ty Fir or Spa.. whichever one this may be

Sens


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