Contemplations of a swinging life.....  

sensually_4ever 42M/F
349 posts
1/4/2006 8:17 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Contemplations of a swinging life.....


The most common question in chat seems to be... What brings you to AdultFriendFinder? I find this one difficult to answer, because it seems my answer changes from day to day...

When I first joined... it was about seeing if I really was attractive to other men then my husband and whether or not I was really interested in this lifestyle.

now... it is about meeting people through chat and blogging . If I should happen to connect with people then it is an addded bonus. It is funny.. but to most AdultFriendFinder is a thing to be ashamed of like swinging is a thing to be ashamed of. I used to think ten years ago that swinging was wrong and that you must never do that sort of thing. I was raised to think sex was something that you only did with your husband.. and that to want sex with others after you are married was wrong.

I have my husband to thank for my newly open attitude towards it.. If you aren't hurting anyone, and it feels good Why not? Women who chose to have a lot of sex are not sluts... much as society raised them to think of themselves that way. I think of sex.. now like an enjoyable activity, and if you find more than one partner to indulge in.. so be it.. Just be safe.. and be careful.. Because in this Life of STD's and Aids you can never be too careful even to the point of turning down someone because you feel that they might be a risk to you personally... Where do you draw the line? I don't know.. everyone has to choose where they want to draw theses lines in the sand and whether they want to follow their own rules in each individual case...

Boy I really was rambling without a point on this


Tahnks as always for reading... again. if you make it this far!!!!


bootielover3 55M

1/4/2006 10:18 pm

This my point how do you ever meet someone in your area on the blogs. I am reading and responding to you but I live 1500 miles from you there can not be much of a connection besides to email or chat with each other.

To be totally honest I am looking to meet and develope a relationship not pretend on line.

I did not mean hurt your feelings if I did.

sensually_4ever 42M/F

1/4/2006 11:39 pm

No ...
why would that hurt my feelings.. I never said that it was intended for people to meet me.. it was intended to connect in a way and for me to put feelings out there...

tis ok.. no offence taken...

Have a good life!!!.. and I hope you find the one you are looking for

sleeplessknight1 68M

1/8/2006 3:39 am

I really enjoy the blogs and I think that is what has kept me here.....
and its true yu do get to know the inner person thru, writings or lyrics...


I enjoy your blog

rm_bbw__fan 49M

1/28/2006 1:36 am

i've read a few now , sens.

and , yes , i cheated , i said i would only read one a day , oh , well.

i never would've ever posted a blog without being inspired by yours first.

much of what you post, write , etc just flows like the way it might if we were having coffee.

i hope you take that as a high compliment.

and , btw , thanks for being inspiring.

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