sensualart42 44F
162 posts
4/27/2005 5:20 am

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Meeting a man form here today who is married with a kid..not likely to go anywhere. He said maybe would see each other agaoin if mutually attracted. Dunno. Think it is worhth meeting for just sex or physical with no chance of it being anything more?!

chowbox2004 43M
210 posts
4/27/2005 7:34 am

If thats want you want/need, then why not? Just dont let him pull any head games on you. Make sure that you are in control, and he will do anything you say!

rm_MarkNGeorgia 64M
91 posts
4/27/2005 8:19 am

There are many reasons why men (and women) cheat on their spouses. Probably the main reason is incompatibility in sex drive. He has a small kid, so perhaps his wife has lost interest in sex. That happens quite a bit after a baby.

What do you consider "anything more"? I had a long-term affair with a woman that I fell deeply in love with. We were both married and accepted our situation, but made the most of the time we spent together. So in my case, "anything more" was a very emotionally satisfying experience.

In my view, a married man seeing a single women is a recipe for disaster. He has a lot more to lose than she does if they are discovered. Many times the woman starts demanding more time together than he can give, or starts pressuring him to leave his family. Because she doesn't have the same need for discretion, she might be more careless. All it takes is one phone call to ruin his life.

The reverse situation is not as explosive, because guys tend to be satisfied with the FWB status quo a lot more than women.

If you want a "FB" or "FWB" no strings relationship, then go for it. Just be accepting of his limitations.

sensualart42 44F

4/27/2005 9:04 am

he bailed as had a client call..was some wht relieved and disappointed. We talked some and he said let's see whre it goes,as I m not looking for a one sho t deal,not me,as I have feelings, not just a cunt. H said he thinks of me as a friend,guess with benefits huh?!

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