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It seems to be an inevitable topic when it comes to sex. Wow! Those are big! I'd like to get a closer look at those. Hmmm... I wonder how big he is. Last night I was with this woman and you should have seen those. He has the biggest unit I have ever seen.
I wonder if size really does matter.
I said in my first post that a vast majority of girlfriends and lovers were older and that there was another thing they had in common. Puberty was very kind to them (and me too).
I have heard some people use the size of one's anatomy as the main decision-maker for them. Me? My unit is the only one I have. I can't replace it. I'll say this: I haven't heard any complaints when it comes to size or performance.
I'd be lying if I said a woman with a large chest didn't arouse me. It does. The best thing is when we are hugging, kissing or just looking deep into each other's eyes and she brings me in closer to make sure I can feel her pushing up against me. Then she will smile because I get aroused. She knows I'm enjoy the little tease she's giving me at the time by my erection and I don't have to say a word.
Does size really matter that much to women? Does it mean that much to men? Is a woman with a smaller pair of breasts any less of a lover than someone with larger ones? Is one man able to please a woman better because of his size? I don't think so.
I have met woman with large breasts and they have thought that they are automatically good lovers just because they're well-endowed. They think a big bra size will automatically make them good in bed because they don't have to pay much attention to their lover. It doesn't always work that way, and I think both suffer in bed because of it.
The same goes for men. I hear guys boasting that they can ease up with a woman because they have a good-size package and the size will make up for whatever they miss or don't take care of.
Sex, oral sex, etc. is supposed to be enjoyed by both partners. If a woman is giving a man a blow job, she should focus on the job she is doing so he can have a good experience. If she is giving a tit-fuck, she shouldn't think he's going to have the time of his life just because her tits are big. Take care of him. If a man is going down on a woman, focus on the woman. Pay attention to her and her wants and needs so she can enjoy it. If you're making love, don't think that your large tools will automatically mean it's going to be a job well done.