im a little fuk up short and stout..  

seductiveinblack 32F
158 posts
7/22/2005 6:29 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

im a little fuk up short and stout..


sorry for the cursing no in the best of moods
... lol im generally not when im blogging huh?
but thats okay cause tahts what blogging is for? nah probbaly not but i cant talk to peple cause i just cant tell them how i feel so i need this space to just : talk :
so i had this ex once who always used to point at what i do wrong daily. Yoouuuu dont do this, youve never done this, why wont you do this, do you care, why are you so selfish, blah blah blah.
and along comes a guy whos done the same thing except worse
People can give you the same compliments cause i mean how much of a variety could there be? youre nice, youre pretty, youre beautiful, youre funny, youre hilarious. youre this youre that.
but really
the chances of people telling you the same negative comments is slim - by that i mean if they tell u the same exact thing when they dont know each other it must mean that YOU ARE WHAT THEY ARE TELLING YOU YOU ARE. so now here i am thinking that i really AM stupid and I really AM all that he said that i was lastnite. Man .. i wish i were some what perfect so i dont waste peoples time...

jonny191 36M

7/22/2005 2:30 pm

Yes Seduc there are only so many ways to say things ans something once said can't be unsaid. Even if the person saying want to. If they are sorry for what they said you will see it in their actions. Some people can lie to your face and not bat an eyelash, but even then if you look them in the eye you can tell if they truely mean it or not


6pkgmn9 66M  
238 posts
7/23/2005 11:48 pm

That's why first guy is an X and second guy should be also! No reason to put someone down like that all the time. Control freaks.
Compliments are just that though they be basically the same ones. It's how they are said, what you are doing and where you are which make them sooooo special
Maybe short and stout...but you are 100% beautiful and sweet


mygmyg 59M

7/24/2005 9:38 am

Seductive, men who yell and say that someone else is stupid are just showing that they have a problem understanding that they are not listening or more typically are not able to mentally process what is happening or what they are hearing.

Something is wrong when people yell, if it is not for the safety of someone else....it is a lack of control in their thought to mouth process. Irrational behavior towards someone you care about indicates that this person is unable to control themselves mentally.
Respect and consideration are the basis for a relationship of any kind. this is a control issue when it is a normal occurrence in a person. Lack of maturity and attempting to dominate by intimidation is not a good combination.

Seductive in Black, fade these guys to Black...do not accept this from anyone. You are a young Lady who will be growing and learning like we all do our whole lives,(I am 48 and in my last year of college) we all make mistakes, not repeating the mistakes and learning from them is the key.

Seductive, you are not stupid, let noone, let alone a man , utter this to you. You obviously are unhappy with this , YOU can change who is around you!! Enjoy your family and your beautiful dog.

Seductive, there are very few truly intelligent people in the world, the rest of us, YOU and ME are bright, smart and capable. Nurture yourself and continue to learn in a positive way, leave the negative thoughts and negative people behind.


1charlieusa 48M  

7/26/2005 11:06 am

i think you got a cute face.


rm_Jme681000 45M
29 posts
7/27/2005 4:19 am

no no no U R what U say U R...

B what U want 2B...

Yes others can disagree... they have that right... however U can choose U'r partner, or vice versa, If the bad out weights the good...move on U'r 2 young...


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