decisions! decisions!  

seductiveinblack 32F
158 posts
8/7/2005 7:36 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

decisions! decisions!

so ive been thinking.
ive been wanting to go to SYDNEY to see my friends and hang out with them for a year then go back to the US (cause i was born there and i am a citizen)... BUT! lets say i went to sydney, i would have a kick ass time being with my friends and all but i cant only stay there a year (due to my short 1year visa --- working holiday visa), but in order for me to stay there a year i need all the neccessities like, bed, elect appliances etc etc a house, rent money and al that shit, and it would be really expensive cause i would be partying all the time and stuff.
so heres what ive been thinking.
to hell with sydney thought that is realyl sad cause i want to see my friends but i am wayy to broke for that kind of living right now. Move to the US sometime early next year, and work there.. a part time job and possibyl go to school again OR i can just land myself some shitty ass job and complain!
to be option 2 (going to the US) sounds better for me financially. I have someone to stay with until i can stand on my own two feet.. so thats no oproblem at all!!
... i just dont know how to tell my friends in sydney that i cant go anymroe.. ill never ever see some of them again and thats just so sad!

what to do...
but hey i am going to end up in US anyway -- why not now? and get comfy... rite? and i have to leave sydney one day.. so dont go..?
man i dont know waht to do im so lost help help!

im so tired i think ill go to bed and think about this later.
goodnite all hope you had a good weekend.
cheerios! (says in an english accent)

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
8/7/2005 3:30 pm

seductive....the one piece of advice I might be able to give at this ancient age of 53 is that seldom in life are our decisions so black and white. By making either decision you are not closing off the other. Do what seems logical and right for you now and life will take care of itself. Good luck in making that decision.

6pkgmn9 66M  
238 posts
8/8/2005 12:33 am

Compromise....Visit Sydney this time. Week or two. Then come to US...I'll have your room ready...hehe I wish! Get settled in.Earn some money go back and visit again

1charlieusa 48M  

8/8/2005 2:19 pm

dear... not that you sound "spoiled" or anything .. keke But let's be real. Maybe you should stay in Japan and take care of your BOYFRIEND!... what a noble idea huh? Or he was just someone good for a quickie? Anyway... be happy you have CHOICES!, most don't ....... One other choice. Come to Hawaii with me and I'll take you to Australia

jimmy_j_76 40M
94 posts
8/10/2005 6:45 pm

take, sydney, you don't know when you'll see your friends again

boodaddy1 51M  
108 posts
8/11/2005 10:03 pm

i got a bedroom 4 u in so cal in los angeles. your own bed not mine but we could share lol

cuddleboy69 49M

8/15/2005 8:43 am

I agree with redswallow (he's so old and wise ). In the end go with what you think is best, you are so young, that it's easy to change your mind later.
The only thing I would add is that I don't think it's best to stay at someone's house who might want something from you (like sex ). Even though it can seem nice, there's alot of pressure and a power relationship in that situation, essentially you become a kept woman. Well it's ok as long are you are aware of the consequences.


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