What an evening  

secretgarden04 51F
58 posts
6/28/2005 4:43 am

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What an evening

Ok. I had a totally unplanned evening. It was really nice but very unplanned. I went to Flirts a few weeks ago and had a great time. It was my first time there. I ended up meeting a lot of very nice people. There were definitely some very, very sexy women there. And men, wow!!! Very nice but most are way too pushy. I know the atmosphere was so very sexually charged but just like in any situation, the guy less pushy definitely has a better chance. Though the atmosphere is one of sex, lots of people come looking to find someone to hook up with but most are not looking to do it that night, leave with you to go to some secret hotel or other place with someone they know nothing about. Its really just that simple. Even though you may be out looking for sex and nothing more, you still have to treat a lady like a lady. Too many men see it as an opportunity to say whatever they like thinking she's a slut or some other demeaning name simply because she enjoys sexual encounters. Believe me, even though we may be out looking for sex without strings, we won't acknowledge you if you still can't at least offer some level of respect simply because we are women. I ran into a few jerks that night but I also had the chance to talk to a few nice guys, clearly looking for sex but not pushy about it and they didn't come so horny that they had to have it that very night. If you are truly on your game, you already have a few ladies on standby so when you meet someone new, you dont have to rush to the sack with them but if you are in that mood, can call up a reserve and work on getting to a more intimate setting with the one you just met.

As I stated I met a few guys, exchanged phone numbers. I had been talking to a few since then and one guy and I decided to hang out last night. I had a blast. We drove around a bit and talked, went out to eat (and it was dutch. I don't need to be taken care of nor am I trying to break a mans wallet. I have my own). We had talked earlier about doing a possible 3some. Since he already knew I wasn't interested in the FMF 3some, he had over the past few weeks, introduced me a friend of his who may be interested. We planned on last night. I enjoyed myself tremendously. Both definitely brought something "nice" to the table. We plan to hook up again but in the mean time, I still look for the variety I so enjoy. Want to know more???? (smile) ask me.

atheet 43M
1 post
6/29/2005 1:17 am

hey secretgarden were is this club i would love to go vist and see what it is about. maybe i can have a goodtime like you.

secretgarden04 51F

6/29/2005 3:53 am

Flirts is on Boston Street in Caton. Its very nice. If I weren't going away on vacation this weekend i'd go myself.

ieatwell271 46M
2 posts
7/5/2005 8:32 pm

I heard Flirts was a really nice laid back spot. Do you get there often?

secretgarden04 51F

7/11/2005 4:24 pm

yes at least 3 times a month..i love it. have met a lot of people there. i like it because the men don't care that some of us ladies have a few extra pounds in certain places. they still have an interest in us

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