Safety in Numbers  

secretgarden04 51F
58 posts
7/1/2005 9:44 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Safety in Numbers


It sure is a hot day outside, but happy to be amongst the living who can feel it, so I won't complain. I am sitting here thinking about an email I received from a friend today. Months ago a friend from another site was killed and her body was placed in a deep freezer. They were able to quickly apprehend the husband and wife who were responsible but it wasn't until recently that the details of what happened were released. She had actually met a man from a site and agreed to a 3-some with him and his wife. She didn't know them, she had met them from the site. She ended up agreeing and went to their home for this encounter. Needless to say, the situation go out of control as the wife was not real comfortable with the situation and actually had become jealous thinking the husband and this woman had been seeing each other and she no longer wanted to take part but also was deathly angry at my friend for going forward and engaging with the husband there in her home. Her anger turned deadly and now one person is dead and the husband and wife are in jail, still awaiting trial. She never, ever should have gone to their house, especially alone. Be more safe than sorry people.

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
7/2/2005 12:01 pm

That is a chilling story.

You are right... be safe... not sorry... and check folks out first.

I'm guessing that not all of the details you mention here have been released to the media. I tried a NexisLexis search to find out more about this case but came up dry.

Be careful out there.


secretgarden04 51F

7/3/2005 9:22 am

I'm not sure if AdultFriendFinder will allow me to post the story but let me see if I can pull up the link and post that here if its allowed. There have been several stories posted about it. It took place here in Maryland. She was also a member of another site which is where I know her from and she attended a lot of meet and greets this site has on the 3rd Saturday of each month. I'll see if I can pull up the original two stories, the first of her missing and the second of her being found in a freezer.


rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
7/4/2005 9:34 am

Thanks for the additional clues. I found a few items in both the DC and Baltimore papers. Amazing how different the accounts in the newspapers had the story. From comparisons, it seems The Sun had it closest. Here is a quote from The Sun in May:

An Ellicott City woman accused of luring a woman to her home for a three-way sexual encounter, helping to kill her and stuffing the body in a freezer was convicted of second-degree murder yesterday in Howard County Circuit Court.

The boyfriend in the case got 30 years. If he had not tried to borrow an acquaintance's truck to get rid of the freezer, they might have gotten away with this crime. The acquaintance apparently tipped the police.

It is hard to say what happened from all the conflicting reports. Unfortunately, the victim is the only one who would probably tell the tale without any lies attached.


secretgarden04 51F

7/5/2005 5:11 am

Yep. Thats the story. The only way we all got additional details was because she had actually chatted in a chat room about wanting to participate in a three-some. The only difference was apparently in the chat room, it was the guy in the chat with her not the woman but as they say they only person who can tell the true story is the victim. The site where they met was a very, very popular site for black people to chat and everyone was blown away because she was a regular in the chat room and i think people thought she was just chatting about it like everyone else just sort of chats about stuff but never really does it. For a while they had left her personal page on the site with her picture on it and everyone would leave a post in her guestbook after she died but I think they finally removed the page after people start sending the site messages that she was killed. I'm no longer on that site so i'm not sure if they really finally took it down or not.


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