Now what?  

seattle_photo 45M
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8/7/2005 11:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Now what?

I'm getting more profile views for a change, and more people adding me to their network. So now what? I'm a standard member, I can't even VIEW their profiles! I could view a couple on August 1st, but not any they let standard members view like...5 profiles *per month* or something, or did I just run into a glitch of some sort?

I can wink at people (at least I think they are getting them), but I can't invite them to my network unless I am in a chat room with them (I wonder if that's a bug even?)

So how do I get these people to make contact? I clearly can't...

74ShovelHD 53M

8/11/2005 12:54 pm

Pay up!! Don't think the women are going to pay to contact you...

seattle_photo 45M

8/12/2005 2:56 pm

Thanks for the comment BUT...I was a gold member for almost a year in the past, and while I could see and contact people, it didn't make a difference in the response rates! Women on AdultFriendFinder seem to be either

1) fake (porn bots, gay MEN, or at best - escorts) or
2) swamped with so many requests it's impossible to reach them unless you are their 100% perfect match, and can convey that to them instantly

So, I'm undertaking this scientific experiment by which I'm trying to find out if there's any hope in being a standard member at all. Maybe someday I'll upgrade and continue the experiment for the paid levels, but I'm actually getting enough sex offline to where I can't justify the money

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