Boundries...Protocol for swapping(A response to PrettyPrincess's observations from 10-22-05).  

search4honesty 53M
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6/28/2006 5:55 am

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Boundries...Protocol for swapping(A response to PrettyPrincess's observations from 10-22-05).


Ok...I have wrestled with my experience related to this website for quite some time now. I would like some feedback, please. If you were in a swap situation, and the only 2 boundries that you and your partner had dead-on agreed upon were 1. Same room, and 2. Safe sex, and your partner proceeded to break both of the agreed-upon boundries...Would you be upset? 'would love to hear back from all. Thanks. Steve

rm_Psyched4SEX 54F
182 posts
7/14/2006 4:20 pm

If the boundaries were set and agreed upon prior to the swap, there should be NO negotiating. If the set rules were broken and blatantly disregarded, how can you trust the person? Open communication, mutual trust and respect are my primary factors when I'm involved in a relationship with someone. I demand this and will accept nothing less. Best of luck to you! {=}


rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
9/11/2006 1:41 pm

Trust is a big thing. Big. Being able to trust that a partner is not only willing but also able to keep agreements is a big thing. Life is full of choices and the ones we make help to determine where we all are on the path and who we walk with.

Would I be upset. No. I would be clear, however, that this was not
someone who I could trust. Trust is a big thing with me. It is that simple and I would not want to partner with someone that I could not trust. I would adjust accordingly as all was very clear, so you said.


Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


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