what ABOUT those one night stands?  

scilla44 52F
2 posts
3/28/2005 10:58 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

what ABOUT those one night stands?

So I meet someone on the AdultFriendFinder and I make plans to meet him and then when I'm off the computer and in the "real" world, I chicken out. How do you get past that?

I think sex can be fun with no strings attached. Just a bunch of suck and fuck and then bye bye til next time.

I guess the bravery comes in when you get on these chats and then bam, make a date and do it now!

Not always logical.

Anybody ever do that? Make a "meet you in 20 minutes" date with a stranger?

Devilmademe4u 66M
1 post
3/29/2005 8:16 am

It's always unnerving the first time,you just have to remember you both want the same thing.
Once the clothes are off it is easy

rm_indul_gent1 55M
89 posts
4/5/2005 7:18 am

You 'chicken out' because you're not ready. Part of the appeal of internet relationships is the ability to explore from a distance. There are no accidents and everything happens for a reason. Perhaps, when you're ready or when you meet someone who is compelling enough you will find that the fear subsides. I've never made one of those 'meet you in 20 minutes' dates but I must confess I find the prosepect terribly enticing.

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