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sbk30 41F
7 posts
8/20/2005 12:38 pm

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New to This

Well, I am new to this but what the heck-I'll give it a shot.

I came to this website because I am bicurious and don't know how or where to meet others in the same situation I am in.

I have been married to my husband for 6 years and we have a 4 year old daughter. I love my husband and sex between us is staisfying but there's where the problem lies. First of all, sex between us ioccurs every now and then and I have sexual fantasies of women. I also find myself as equally attracted to women as I am to men. My husband doesn't know this and I don't plan on telling him out of fear of loosing him. He is my best friend and soul mate. I have asked him before if he would be into watching me and another woman and he said he wasn't sure.

Thing is, I really want to have sex with a woman, maybe a couple, to see what it's like. It is an urge that has been growing stronger. Well, we'll see what happens.

chrisandliz13 36M/34F

8/20/2005 1:34 pm

My wife is in a similar situation to you, she is also bicurious and unsure of what to do. We have a very open marriage and i fully support her in trying new things. It is too bad that we are so far apart because i think you two could help each other. Good luck.

rm_true_north23 37M/F
3 posts
8/20/2005 1:34 pm

I think my girlfriend may be going through the same thing you are. But sounds like we may be a little bit more open. I know shes fantasies about another woman and I'm cool with that... For me personally I just had to get past those little jealousy feelings in the back of my head and realize that this is a great way to explore and be open with your partner, and its not "picking a new soul-mate" like you said... its just exciting new sex! I've watched my GF a couple of times grop & make-out with other women and it's flipping hot! I can't wait to watch her take it to the next level! I think if it does happen for you, not to let your husband feel left out of the action... make sure he knows he's a part of it too! Anyway... theres my two cents...

lifeisablast333 53M

8/20/2005 2:35 pm

welcome to blog land....and happy hunting...the redneck

MiAmore62 49M

8/20/2005 4:34 pm

Id LOVE to suck your husband as you did it right there with another woman,...thats MY fantasy...... he could jus sit back and get sucked as he watched his honey doing another!

laurelmaxell 45M/45F
1 post
8/20/2005 4:57 pm

hi. couple here in woodstock. would be happy to help you out. send an email thru AdultFriendFinder if u are interested

rm_bgdeb56 60M/F

8/20/2005 5:00 pm

Greetings to New to This Your situation probably is shared by many, many, people from every walk of life imaginable. Me and my wife(whom I love very much) each have fantisies of watching each other with a same sex partner. We talk about the bi-curious experience and how much this would turn us on. I hope you find you find inner-peace while embracing your sexuality.One more thought is would you ever leave your family for another woman??? or just embrace who you are and enjoy some great encounters???

RicksSedgyBlurb 73M
5 posts
8/20/2005 10:42 pm

if you have these feelings do it now. do not wait until later in life.try to hook up with an older owman,she will show you the way.get this out of the way ant your love life should be better with your husband.

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