A few failures here at AFF  

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7/25/2005 3:12 pm

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A few failures here at AFF

I admit--not all my experiences have been successful on AdultFriendFinder. In fact, some were very painful experiences. Writing men to introduce myself has been an eye-opening experience. I think I finally have a glimps at the rejection men face from women everyday when trying to get women to go out with them. Getting rebuffed is bad enough, then couple it with a rude reply or mean-spirited comment. It's ego injuring enough to make you never want to talk to the opposite gender for quite awhile. These were the experiences that came to mind when I wrote the first blog.

I have also gone to meetings where the person didn't show up, or they did show up and were not happy because I'm "big". I had to wonder if they actually read my profile. With this new ID and profile, I hope that I have learned from and corrected any mistakes that I made as far as providing a description and photo.

In some ways this site mirrors the real world -- there are people who want ideal bodies and faces. I know that there are really cool people who want someone adventurous and fun, someone they can laugh with and and have sexual fun with as well-- that is the point, right?

also want to say that I am very happy that people Just, Irish and others read and posted comments to my blog.

I have come back to AdultFriendFinder after being away for awhile and I'm ready to jump into the deep end. I'm happy to report that I am getting messages and will hopefully meet someone soon.

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