Just looking  

saywhatoo 49F
58 posts
5/31/2006 2:42 pm
Just looking

I have to admit that I really enjoy looking at all these men. All different shapes and sizes. Kinda glad nobody was on the day I put it out there. I might have gotten myself in trouble!!I have had many a fantasy about these men that have contacted me.

LivinLovinLife2 60M

5/31/2006 6:49 pm

Well, say no more and look my way too

rm_b2dnar 61M

6/1/2006 6:28 am

As much as many of the guys who contacted you may have wanted to see you, perhaps its best that a meeting did not occur. For now.

Yes, it's a big step - and one that should not be taken lightly. There are too many variables in the world we live in. You inquired as to whether or not anyone here had met someone from online. Yes, it has happened - and will continue to do so as long as people harbor unmet needs.

There are a number of roads you may choose to traverse as you make your way through life.

You may choose to "throw caution to the wind," go with your gut feeling and meet up with an online personality for some NSA interaction. It may go well, it may not. No way to pre-qualify that one.

You may choose to simply remain in a "fantasy state," passing up any opportunities to meet, and be content with the flirty banter in chat and on IM. Will that do it for you? Nobody knows that but you.

However, you may choose to expand an online relationship with someone or ones. You may take the time to learn a bit about them, their likes, dislikes and type of person they are ( or at least represent themselves to be online). At the appropriate time, you may choose to actually meet - for whatever has evolved from the discussion. Simply a friend? Confidant? NSA sexual partner? Or perhaps more. Could it be that any - or none - of these things are what you seek? Again, nobody knows that but you.

The key word in all of the above was "Choose." You hold the trump card. But before you can "choose," you need to examine what you want. Yes, that's a difficult question that doesn't always have a clear-cut answer. But it is vitally important that you define what you are looking for prior to making a move.

For the most part, there are no judgements of each other on this site. So if you decide you desire an anonymous sexual experimentation encounter - so be it. If you wish a fantasy oriented chat existence - so be it. If you want more - again, so be it.

We all are looking for something, although I suspect that most don't know what that really it. Perhaps we won't know it until we experience it - or walk away from it.

Take a good long look inside and see if you can identify any of your hidden, latent desires. That will give you a good, beginning roadmap at to how to proceed.

Good Luck on your journey.

B2 out

scottc71 45M

6/2/2006 2:33 am

Fantasy can be so much better than the real person. Have fun sometimes and vent a little sometimes and it doesn't matter. Thats the great thing about this place.

mojohandyman 69M
12 posts
6/4/2006 1:48 pm

So, about these fantasies...

mojohandyman 69M
12 posts
6/5/2006 12:52 pm

...I know we'd all love to hear more about them!

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