Chemistry, Does it just have to happen on its own?  

sassysmartgrrl 46F
108 posts
8/30/2006 5:01 am

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Chemistry, Does it just have to happen on its own?

Ever have an experience where things just clicked? Where from the first explorative kisses after a leisurely post dinner stroll to the desirous touching and all the other wonderfully naughty things that happen that it all just flows nicely. When an occasion of chemistry happens naturally it is amazing as it did in recent history to the Sassy one, but can you make it happen if it doesn’t just happen? Can chemistry be helped along?
Chemistry just has to happen on its own
You can help it along, but only so far
It can be totally manufactured
Who needs chemistry?

ZZ_Todd 59M

8/30/2006 10:02 am

I truly believe it is something that can't be coached. I mean, if something is bound, or destined to happen, it will; if not, it won't. Helping chemistry along I think only sets us up for a disappointment later on. Helping the relationship along AFTER the chemical reaction has occurred should be what people consider.

rm_YipYazoo 50M
22 posts
8/30/2006 11:15 am

Nice comment there, ZZ. But I disagree with him on "helping chemistry along". I think sometimes it can be helped, but only so far. Perhaps it's in my nature to dig a little bit more to know the person, before deciding "thumbs up/down". Indeed, there are reasons why adages like "Don't judge a book by its cover" and "Diamond in the rough" exist.


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