What is it that moves people?  

sargntivan 34M
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12/20/2005 11:12 am

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What is it that moves people?

Being a member of this site has been definitely an experience thus far. I have to admit (and I was adequately warned) that it's nigh impossible to meet people with similar interest on here. I know there's a thousand pictures of cocks as primary photos, but what is it that would draw a person to a profile? Faces? Bodies? There are those of us that just like to be discreet and utilize AdultFriendFinder for it's sexual undertones, but then what?

The ratio of men:woman is easily about 1,000,000:1. Then on top of that, there's a strong contigency of people in their 30s/40s. Therefore, the crows of women in their 20s get bombarded by emails and winks and messages. How is it possible to stand out against the rest?

Well, I guess to start, you need to have a clear image of what you want. What is it I want? I would love a cultured woman in her 20s that isn't shallow or conceited. Some people would argue that I'm looking for a real relationship. Well maybe I am, but that's not what I think about right now. I'm more attracted to a confident and cultured woman than just a body with tits and ass. Guess it's hard to find that when you're main picture is just your member.

Maybe even being a standard member hurts the rapport with the rest of the crew. Is it because I don't dish out $20/month that I don't get an interest from people? It's so tough. To just find an attractive and fun partner takes more work than finding an actual relationship!! Hahah. Comments, encouragement, even referrals are welcomed.

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

12/20/2005 4:20 pm

Okay, cock shots are just ridiculously overdone on this site. Do something different. Take a pic of just your abs, or jeans and no shirt, or jeans and a white t-shirt.

Even a silly pic will get my attention before another cock pic does.

As for being a standard member, you have to spend a lot of time looking at profiles and winking - then hoping that someone will get back to you. Check out some of the chatrooms, check out some of the Chicagoland bloggers and invite them to visit your blog. Post messages on groups that share common interests with you. Check out the magazines and articles and post advice.

We've never been standard members, but I've seen a few succesfull standard memebers on this site and they have had luck because they use all of the features on this site. They found ways to communicate in place of emails.

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