First Time Swinger  

saraswathi_2005 40F
162 posts
5/26/2005 11:05 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First Time Swinger


I've just recently joined AdultFriendFinder... hmm, just the last week of april, i think. Any sexual experiences I've had in the past were in the context of a committed relationship... meaning, I've only had them with my ex-boyfriends. Never had casual sex... had opportunities in bars, beaches, etc. but never took them. I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who wanted to get married. I guess, I got scared of committing the rest of my life to spending it with one person. Maybe, we'd eventually get back together or something. In the meantime, I'd like to explore my sexuality without the pressure and strings. But finding a partner I could be comfortable with is a lot harder than I thought!

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/26/2005 1:36 pm

The comfort factor is a huge factor for us. It usually takes a couple of dates before we feel comfortable enough to take that final step. Then of course it is no longer casual sex (can't win for losing)

Welcome to Blogland


Serrichard2020 53M
1 post
5/26/2005 2:04 pm

if you need some one you can call me i have dated more gril for sex only and i like that one day i will be with the right one if you need me come to San Antonio Texas ok


TryNEThin 35M

5/26/2005 2:30 pm

Well I would like to join the club. Been in 2 long term relationships since I was 17. My last relationship ended a couploe of weeks a go. I'm now searching for a no strings attached way to explore my sexuality and experience something new and exciting.


srfbaja365 50M
1 post
5/26/2005 3:07 pm

take your time. No hurry. Enjoy life. And if you want to experiment do it. if not don't. marriage is suppose to be lifetime commitment to that 1 person so be sure/careful. I've done both-1 nights and marriage. They're both great and not so great.


purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/28/2005 11:33 am

sara, strong sexual chemistry can be present on the first date, for us that's what leads to the second date

the sex is just so much better with a little emotional attachment (or a lot). Not to mention the anticipation


discreet_gaysha 46M
36 posts
5/30/2005 11:33 am

wow, girl u hv a lot to make up!!!!
nevr too l8


redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
6/3/2005 8:49 pm

Good luck love.......may the search be a pleasant one.


rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
6/6/2005 12:32 am

Welcome to the blogs, sara. Good advice here. Have some fun. Be patient. The hunt can often times be a surprise. You may think you have dialed in on someone, only to find the next person standing in line for a coffee beside you, someone that makes you tingle! That's the beauty of the hunt. Always be ready... and good luck. I've got an idea from reading your blog, you won't have any trouble, once you let yourself go.


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/22/2005 7:35 am

Welcome to blogland. I am here on missy's reccomendation and will work my way slowly and tantalizingly up your...blog.

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