What the hell?  

samson3297 46M   
7 posts
5/22/2006 2:20 pm

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6/13/2006 12:33 pm

What the hell?

Look, I'm a good looking, clean, D and D free, intelligent,professional man, and I thought I would be able to at least have SOME fun by joining this site....but no dice. Can anyone give me advice or info on why I can't interact with anyone but other automated replies just trying to get me to go to another site?......are there any real ladies out there who simply want to go and have some fun? I thought this was supposed to save time not create it!

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
5/22/2006 3:04 pm

Men of AFF ... dial 911

luna_c6 36F

5/22/2006 3:07 pm

You only allow gold and silver members to write you which is the biggest limitation I see.

yogagrrl 48

5/22/2006 5:12 pm

I disagree with Luna. I have the same membership for a reason. It's quality not quantity that I am seeking. Paid members are of a different species. Please don't flame me for being honest.

Sorry to hear that you're having problems on this site. It seems easy at first; you place an add, you tell your story and you're hopeful. Maybe you meet someone, maybe you don't. In the six months that I have belonged to this site, it has been the most the difficult place to meet sincere people. I have met only four men - they all turned out to be flakes or jokers. I have talked to over two dozen. I do better on my own in meeting men elsewhere.

This is not the place to meet people, or the people you want to have a NSA relationship. My membership ends in June and I am not renewing it. Some people do nothing but blog here, there are so many other sites where you can blog on for free which give you a boarder range of exposure.

AdultFriendFinder is ridiculous. I've heard through the grapevine that this site takes your money and does very little to upgrade or improve the site.

Best of luck.

534 posts
5/22/2006 8:20 pm

Well statistics say more men on here than women....I would say be patient..but I do wish you the best of luck...Take Care ~D~

ChiliBaresTrill 56M
3 posts
5/24/2006 5:44 pm

I share your concern. After signing up, six women were suddenly listed as being from my same location. That is, they weren't there before I signed up. I (and other friends) contacted each but none ever replied. Sure seems like this site added them. There are also many other profiles that have very similar opening lines, like "my friends say I am shy but", etc. Seems like this site is to lazy to be creative so it just cuts and pastes from existing profiles to make new (fake) profiles. The percentage of real women on this site must be less than 10%. If you are a real woman in NE Ohio then let me know. I'll happily change my percentage estimate (and maybe treat you to a very nice time!). I wish you the best. -- gleg69

2375 posts
6/4/2006 1:02 pm

I've met quite a few nice people on this website. I think it's easier for women though because of the men/women ratio. I don't think this is the place for a lasting relationship, just hook ups. I've made several lasting friendships with benefits, but that's all I'm really looking for. Best of luck!

rm_essej21 52M

6/20/2006 11:54 am

I hear what you are saying. Though we are looking for different things (you for women and me for men) most of the responses I get are just men playing stupid games and they must get off trying to get me excited or something. My profile, like yours, is very clear and tells the people on this site exactly what I get into. Why they play games, I don't know. So, I don't think you are alone in this predicament. Anyway, good luck to you.

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