Moths to a Flame  

sadock76 44M
139 posts
6/30/2005 5:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Moths to a Flame

I often get discouraged in my search for that life partner. Too often these days I see the ladies I want going off and making themselves miserable with the local prick/asshole. I've talked to some of my female coworkers about this situation. All I get is batting eyelashes and "He's so charming/sexy." Something like that. Just makes me shake my head and go "Huh?!?"

It was making me seriously consider changing who I was for a while until I realized that if I tried to be someone I wasn't then whatever relationship I wound up with out of that would be based upon a lie and therefore worthless.........

Are humans just wired to be drawn to that which will make them unhappy? Is this some sort of bastardization on the grass is greener cliche`? Anyone else noticing this trend? And don't get me wrong, it goes both ways, I just notice the F to M side more because I'm a guy. If I was a girl I'd most likely be writing about this vice versa. Oy vey......

Blueeyes4u2nv 36F

6/30/2005 1:53 pm

[purple]I guess I would have to say In some ways I agree...I know for a fact something down inside me,Often craves to be needed and wanted by a man, In a Primal Kind of way...I think our instincts still have a bit of animalist tendencies...I know in bed I love to have a man take control...And Be my master...And it is hard to tell a man,"Hey be rough with me", and "Control me" in bed,yet then flip on the lights and expect to be treated the exact opposite..The world is filled with both good and bad people...I agree the ratio is probabley more bad than good...I know alot of us women love to be treated well, In and Out of bed...If someone wants to be with someone else who treats them poor, then Who needs them????????

Such a cliche' I know, But its the truth..Try and let the jerks and jerks be together,,,,There are people out there who appreciate and want and seek to be treated well....Don't ever change Your a Doll!

sadock76 44M

6/30/2005 2:34 pm

Thanks Blue Eyes

MILFGoddess 44F

7/7/2005 3:44 pm

I would rather be alone for all eternity that be with someone who treats me or my children bad. There's NO MAN in the WORLD worth all that heartache and bullshit.

But you, Mr. Sexy Firefighter'll find her. You just got to keep looking. You've got a lot to offer a woman you just need to find the right one. Don't give up, and dont' FORCE it. Roll with the flow and when the time is right it will happen.

When I met "R", I'd vowed to give up on men (and was considering a life of Lesbianism!) in June. Lived a perfectly happy life ALONE until October, when *BLAM* he pretty much just fell out of the sky and landed right in front of me. When I wasn't looking and when I least expected it. It could happen to you too, Lover.

You just never know

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