Don't let this site bother you!  

rm_ryder_ns 49M
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9/2/2005 7:39 am

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8/23/2009 11:07 pm

Don't let this site bother you!

I was a member here a year ago. And got really frustrated that I would write, write and write and not get a single response. I would write messages that went beyond "I want to fuck" even though it was implied in a polite way. No go. It was frustrating. I even went into the local chat room. Discovered the local clique and was ignored by them. Saying hi, trying to interject convo resulted in frustration. Eventually I got depressed and after the mental abuse of being ignored. I left.

I am back, but have come with a new attitude to not let it bother me. Enjoy what you can outside of it. If something happens - good! If not, oh well.

So, to all those people that feel like this site is depressing them. Don't! Not many people will care. So, don't beat yourself up. Take it in stride. It took me a while to realize this, but once you do... it's great.


69baby75 44F

9/2/2005 8:12 am

that is right at first it took me about 2 months before i got a good response and like you said in the chatrooms they all already basically know each other. but hey i hung in there and now the fun is here to stay. we just need to patient and see that fun times will come and what else do we have to lose we are the ones who put ourselves here and what happens happens. right.

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